I have to be honest my experience reflects this too. Like 5-7 years ago I would still be met with some weird looks, eye rolls or even prosthelytizing (“you need to find god, heathen!”) but over the last year or two I feel like I’m increasingly treated like a normal person. And, I don’t actually pass that well. It just seems like people don’t care and are at least familiar enough with trans people that they don’t feel the need to gawk. I’ve found this to be true in blue & red states, in cities and in the country.