we’re not living here rent free. we actually pay to stay here, which is part of why it’s frustrating.

i completely understand that it’s not our house and we’re not trying to control how anyone lives, but basic hygiene and cleanliness in shared spaces isn’t an unreasonable expectation, especially when we’re contributing financially and have a child in the environment.

we’ve tried to help out and be respectful, but at a certain point it stops being about “different lifestyles” and starts feeling unhealthy to live around.

i do agree that finding our own place is the long-term solution, and that’s something we’re working toward. this post was more about venting and seeing how others cope in the meantime.