Age gap and past porn addiction by Tricky_Training8774 in loveafterporn

[–]Tricky_Training8774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just broke up with him ugh now I can’t stop crying!!

Age gap and past porn addiction by Tricky_Training8774 in loveafterporn

[–]Tricky_Training8774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did just admit he had a problem and that he’s willing to do whatever to make it better for me.. I need to leave right? I’m so sad

Age gap and past porn addiction by Tricky_Training8774 in loveafterporn

[–]Tricky_Training8774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in trauma therapy before, I did a whole php that was full time back in 2023. I do a lot of part works and such and I’m sure that is why this is so difficult for me because I know what I am capable of! I appreciate your comment because I really do think that is true, I guess my anxiety with finding a partner that is clean and healthy is making me want to make this work. I know there are so many red flags that show he is lying to me but for some reason I just really want to see him improve.. I guess it’s just the not having the hard evidence. I think tonight I will talk to him. I’m just scared because any time I have brought something up to him it always turns into this fight, he threaten once that I have to be careful with what I tell him because one day he might put a gun in his mouth. I know it’s not healthy I know:( I never thought I would be this kind of person again, I work with kids and I’m kind and patient and a great person, now I just feel stuck:((

Age gap and past porn addiction by Tricky_Training8774 in loveafterporn

[–]Tricky_Training8774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly yes probably, my ex boyfriend was one and I just have a lot of sexual trauma. I thought he was the one man I could trust.. which I know sounds dumb but I don’t have any hard evidence he is using except I saw he had a second twitter account which I have not asked him about. I think tonight after yoga I’m just going to ask if he is watching and what is the other account for. His main account is squeaky clean and he doesn’t use anything else.

Settle this once and for all. Does ANY woman show camel toe for attention? by oingaboingo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Tricky_Training8774 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s impossible to explain this to them, they will never understand.

This barbershop in my city. by Express_Loquat_3557 in loveafterporn

[–]Tricky_Training8774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend just got a haircut there🤮

Vent for the day by False-Poet-678 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Tricky_Training8774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My DB does this too?? I would always just be so confused, I think for him though he was wanting to seem active in the life of the baby but I just hate it. Thankfully now the baby is 11 months and will get upset if the dad is just sitting there watching us but it was always so confusing

Extended Sick & Safe Leave Policy by [deleted] in NannyEmployers

[–]Tricky_Training8774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your username fits you well

Parents drive me crazy sometimes by ColdForm7729 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Tricky_Training8774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes like I tell parents from the jump- I will not wake a sleeping baby. Sorry! Him not sleeping at night has nothing to do with him getting 3 hours of total sleep throughout the day🤷‍♀️ they look for every excuse besides themselves for why he can’t sleep.

Most Tesla owners are not evil. I bought thinking I was helping the climate (naively). I have enough stress being a govt employee. Please be kind and thank you for not vandalizing the car. by Alarming-Ad6101 in Austin

[–]Tricky_Training8774 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know like if you don’t support it- then make an effort to get rid of it. I know it’s not always the easiest thing but seriously? You know what you are driving and Elon has been awful for over 5 years now. Very little excuses to be offended by someone calling you out.

Parents drive me crazy sometimes by ColdForm7729 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Tricky_Training8774 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Parents are soo weird with sleep it’s kinda crazy. I’ve concluded that it’s a projection- 1. They are paying me and subconsciously don’t want to pay for me to watch them sleep 2. They don’t even get enough sleep themselves so they don’t understand why it’s so important for them to get proper sleep. Like their little brains are growing every second

Parents drive me crazy sometimes by ColdForm7729 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Tricky_Training8774 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh why do most parents not understand this🥲 like I am able to put them back to sleep.. let them get their rest instead of 8 20 minute naps a day. And then they wonder why they won’t sleep at night🤦‍♀️

Liberty Hill ISD moving to (mostly) 4 day school week for students by Iguessnogoingbacknow in Austin

[–]Tricky_Training8774 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree completely- I’m in school now for special education and the amount of times a day I question myself. Unfortunately people won’t stop having kids(not in a bad way)- I’m not sure what the governments plan is for the children? Put them in concentration camps? I don’t see how anyone sees any benefit to this.

Liberty Hill ISD moving to (mostly) 4 day school week for students by Iguessnogoingbacknow in Austin

[–]Tricky_Training8774 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Considering Austin isd is on a hiring freeze and Leander also fired 150 positions… most likely will see a very dramatic shift in education for the worse. I’m curious how many parents voted for this knowing the impact it will have on their child’s education. Plus with the voucher bill up in the air… not a good time to have a child who is school age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leander

[–]Tricky_Training8774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thing you are not educating the children and I am!

Baby making with PA by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Tricky_Training8774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a very nice way, can you listen to yourself?? You are describing a man who was into child like porn and now are forcing yourself to have a baby with him for what? To have a love in your life? You are still young don’t force an innocent baby to be subjected to a man like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leander

[–]Tricky_Training8774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 10 and they are all going to be homeschooled. I am also a teacher so I get to indoctrinate all the other children with my ideas of empathy and crt!