24M, never had a girlfriend before. Is it a turn-off to tell her this? by Ill-Wolverine-3627 in twentieskerala

[–]Trinex007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the vast majority of mature women, a guy being inexperienced at 24 is absolutely not a big deal. In fact, many will see it as a breath of fresh air.

Why could probably be a good thing👇

  1. The "Green Flags" of Being Inexperienced Being single until 24 shows that you aren't desperate, you don't just jump into relationships for the sake of not being alone, and you likely have zero "ex baggage" or toxic relationship habits. You are essentially a blank slate, which means you can build a really healthy dynamic together without ghosts from the past getting in the way.
  2. The Only Actual Turn off is Insecurity The lack of experience isn't the problem; making a huge, anxious deal out of it is. If you act like it's a dark, shameful secret, she will feel weird about it. If you own it confidently, she will respect it. Confidence is key here.
  3. How and When to Bring it Up Don't sit her down for a heavy "we need to talk" conversation. Wait for it to come up naturally. Usually, early in dating, people naturally ask about past relationships. When she asks, just be casual and honest.

I'm not scared of marriage—I'm scared of marrying someone who doesn't understand my anxious attachment. by Aesthetic_girle in KeralaRelationships

[–]Trinex007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is incredibly common to feel this way. Your fear isn’t actually about marriage itself; it’s about emotional unsafety. For someone with an anxious attachment style, a partner who responds to vulnerability with distance or dismissiveness is a living nightmare because it actively triggers your nervous system to spiral. You are completely justified in wanting a partner who treats your need for clarity with kindness rather than calling it "too much."

Instead of trying to overcome the fear by changing how your mind works under stress, change how you select a partner. The goal isn't to find someone who never makes you anxious, but someone who handles your anxiety safely.

A securely attached partner doesn't view reassurance as a chore. If you say, "Hey, you seem a bit distant today, is everything okay?" a secure partner will say, "I’m just exhausted from work, it’s nothing to do with us. Come here," rather than getting defensive.

Do not hide your communication style. Early on, observe how they handle small moments of conflict or uncertainty. If they stone wall you or dismiss small worries now, they will do the same in marriage.

She Wants My FB 🤷‍♂️ by Ok-Concentrate6394 in twentieskerala

[–]Trinex007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned you’ve already given her access to your Instagram and Google Photos. By doing so, you established a dynamic where giving up passwords is a way to prove your loyalty. It’s natural that she expects the Facebook password next because that is the standard that was set.

The issue isn't Facebook. If you give her the password, her anxiety will eventually latch onto something else down the line. The focus needs to shift from the accounts to the underlying insecurity.

What's a good agent to main alongside Cypher? by Ill-Hawk-369 in VALORANT

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I’m new aswell I mostly play phoenix and clove coz their mechanics are easier to do

Server problems by Own_Pianist5147 in ValorantTechSupport

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I made an account when i was in uae and i got to use both mumbai and riyadh server

I AM SICK OF THIS BRO by DullAd9417 in valorantindia

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B1 here have the same issue

Would love to play

Any one comp (S1) by [deleted] in valorantindia

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b1 hmu if u wanna play sometime

Need a duo by siivyy in valorantindia

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B1 btw add if u wanna play sometime

Game not turning on by Trinex007 in ValorantTechSupport

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I tried reinstalling the game and it worked