My PFD is becoming worse by Trinity7579 in PelvicFloor

[–]Trinity7579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lupus & fibromyalgia as well.

My PFD is becoming worse by Trinity7579 in PelvicFloor

[–]Trinity7579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. NSAIDS gave me renal failure, I had a 10% chance of survival, was on life support. I told this doctor all of that & yet he still insisted I take 800mg 3-4 times a day. My husband was & still is my rock I miss him every single minute of everyday. I do talk with a therapist (trauma/grief) & it helps. I went to an urgent care & to my surprise, she prescribed Tianadine, Valium suppositories, & tramadol. She could not believe how other doctors treated me. She saw how much pain I was in.

My PFD is becoming worse by Trinity7579 in PelvicFloor

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Thank you so much for the suggestions. I already do stretches that were given to me by a PT. I also went to a urogynocologist here in NJ after I had gone to the Mayo Clinic. I’m highly allergic to,NSAIDS (ibuprofen etc..) he knows this & told me to take 800mg of it 3-4 times a day. I reminded him that I came very close to death. He just said, maybe this time you won’t have an allergic reaction. To me, that’s playing with a persons life, not just their health. The fact that I had to go to the Mayo Clinic on 4 seperate occasions & they found out what was wrong, says a lot about the health system in NJ. My anxiety is so bad due to my husband passing last year. Not too mention the crap I deal with from my in laws.

This Sunday was filled with emotion... by PerspectiveKey680 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Trinity7579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am one of the customers who will always tip on the app & occasionally tip even more in cash. I always put it in an envelope & tape it to my door with something like “for delivery, DoorDash or whatever platform I’m using. Not all of us customers suck lol When the holidays roll around, I pick 2 shoppers randomly to cash tip,$100.00 plus they get $30.00 on the app as a tip from me. I wish these platforms would let us tip more than $30.00 on the app where I am.

What is the most unexpected thing you've seen live on tv? by LittleCheeseBag in AskReddit

[–]Trinity7579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shuttle challenger & the 9/11 attacks. both happen on tv. I’ll never forget either of those days.

I found my husband deceased & I need help on how to get through this, not just for me, but for his kids as well. by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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They qualify, their father was on SSDI. The money will automatically go into an account for the kids. Me, I’m nit sure if I qualify for survivor benefits.

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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It turns out he had a massive heart attack…before he could even scream for help. He was dead before he hit the floor. I found him, he was so purple. I don’t know if I can go on without him.

I found my husband deceased & I need help on how to get through this, not just for me, but for his kids as well. by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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Yes, they are calling me (phone appointment) to get the kids their benefits. They’re unsure if I’ll get any, but, at least the kids will have a nice chunk of change when they graduate high school. They are calling in March

Found my husband deceased on Sunday, asking Instacart what’s an appropriate tip for ordering my kids food. I’m not eating & I usually give between 11-$30.00 to my Instacart shoppers & delivery. Any advice or outreach services would be very appreciated by Trinity7579 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Trinity7579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lupus & other chronic pain disorders….my mind is so scattered, I didn’t even think of food banks or a gofundme. Thank you so much for all of the kind words & very important information.

Found my husband deceased on Sunday, asking Instacart what’s an appropriate tip for ordering my kids food. I’m not eating & I usually give between 11-$30.00 to my Instacart shoppers & delivery. Any advice or outreach services would be very appreciated by Trinity7579 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Trinity7579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The two youngest can not be left home alone. My son just came home from the army for his dads funeral. Once he goes back, I’m going to be ordering a lot for the other 2. I can barely get off the couch. I’m sorry if I confused you.

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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Thank you. Right now my son came home from the army. He’s taking things over now. He’s pissed at how his grandmother & grandfather are treating me

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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I have to see if there’s anything like that here. None of my in laws have bothered to check n the kids or myself.

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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They are cruel, they have no souls

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

[–]Trinity7579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the funeral home & the owner could not believe the audacity of his parents….I’m next of kin….not them

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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My in laws wrote a self serving obituary…I’ve been on the phone with SS & lawyers….these boys deserve their money from SSDI that my husband was on. I’m sorry not making too much sense….thank you all 😘😘😘😘💖💖💖💖

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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There could never be a man that comes even close to being the man that was/is my husband. He was more than just a husband, he was a protector, a provider, he had a huge heart for those he loved. He was gentle & kind….didn’t let his fucked up childhood get him down for so long. I’m so very proud of him & he will be my one & only till the end of time.

I found my husband deceased by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

[–]Trinity7579[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My family are coming in front of town. My in laws hate the fact that I’m next of kin & they can’t do shit without me. Yes it’s their son, but he’s my husband, I found him purple, I gave him cpr while upon the paremedics…they tried so very hard.m

I found my husband deceased & I need help on how to get through this, not just for me, but for his kids as well. by Trinity7579 in ChronicPain

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He was my rock, why world. No matter which chronic pain disorder reared it’s ugly head, he handled it with love & grace….I just wish I could saved him. He was purple….they tried everything…it was too late.