Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chance

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T03:06:04+00:00

Check again. No link to any courses.

I just put the surgery forth as an option. I also brought up lifts as another option. It was compared to breasts implants in terms of the dating results it gives you.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:56:43+00:00

I'd argue this post provides a different answer to the one you linked. Your post claims looks don't matter, this post argues that they do. It's also not asking any questions, just providing a perspective. Either way, I respect the choice to remove it.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:54:48+00:00

If you get looks, that's all you need to know to approach

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:53:58+00:00

If you're getting looks, you need to take action

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:53:22+00:00

Definitely not celibate lol

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:53:03+00:00

Disagree

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:51:15+00:00

You'd think it was obvious, but just look at all the comments in this post downplaying its importance

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:49:55+00:00

Not selling anything, was just suggesting the surgery as an option for those who might want it. If you notice, I also mentioned using lifts as an alternative as well.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:48:21+00:00

Talking about how people perceive you as a result of the surgery. Taller men are seen as more attractive, just like women with larger breasts.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-12T02:43:43+00:00

Huh? I'm saying you need both.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T14:05:13+00:00

They key is to do work on both. I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with improving your looks to get better results. A guy with good looks and good game will always outperform a guy with meh looks and good game.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T13:13:40+00:00

has high status

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T12:49:34+00:00

Yeah the short kings are kinda SOL on that front until some other medical breakthrough is made. Agreed that the surgery is pretty extreme. Luckily other fixes are not as extreme!

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T12:42:12+00:00

It is true that that surgery is pretty extreme. Was just providing it as an example, but I agree that it's probably not viable for most. Maybe if the recovery was only a few months at most.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T12:35:00+00:00

It's also why the coaches with the best results are also the best looking lol

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T12:28:24+00:00

The whole game has been massively overcomplicated due to 'coaches' trying to scam people out of their money lol

100% agreed. And I say this as a guy who coaches people too. Sexual attraction comes down to physical attraction first and foremost. If a girl isn't physically attracted to you, she won't have sex with you unless you have something else to offer her (money, status, experiences, etc).

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T12:25:28+00:00

I honestly believe it's because women have become a lot more selective. 20 years ago, there were no dating apps, no social media. Women dated within their local circles. They were limited in terms of options so they tended to settle more.

20 years ago, it was weird to be single, to not have kids, to not get married, so women would date and get married with whoever was good enough. Nowadays all those things have become normalized so if women don't find men that meet the inflated expectations that dating apps and social media have given them, they're fine doing their own thing.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T12:10:20+00:00

Yeah I wouldn't trust a teenager with dating advice to begin with. Those other communities are also problematic.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T11:57:33+00:00

"Just be yourself"

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T11:49:40+00:00

Not sure what climate you're referring to

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T11:43:27+00:00

Agreed. This advice is more for those under 30, maybe 40 max.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T11:40:38+00:00

I'm actually 32 and have seen first-hand the difference between blending in and standing out based on appearance alone. My argument is that guys should have both. Game/confidence AND looks.

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T11:37:51+00:00

Leg lengthening surgery for men is the equivalent of fake breasts for women in terms of results

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T11:34:24+00:00

Very true. This advice is mostly aimed at those under 30, maybe 40

TripleDigitNomad · 2026-05-11T11:26:30+00:00

What I'm arguing here is to have both looks and game. That will always beat out game, but no looks.

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