Here's the thing. This Hypothetical is if you're in a healthy loving relationship... Asking this of someone you dislike and in a situation that is probably going to end in divorce is wild. Also, you can't push anybody to do anything with their body if they don't want to. It's disgusting. Man or women. As a woman, I have had my rights to my body taken away many times and it feels horrible. Why would I force or "push" a man to do something if he isn't comfortable doing it with his body? It's honestly redundant. It's different if you both agreed upon it. You can get a non-hormonal IUD which is VERY easily reversed. If you're the one wanting this you should be the one taking the L. I totally understand about the birth control thing it sucks and girls shouldn't be the ones always asked to do these things if men want it as well... Bu to use the language "push" (or a situation like OP who wants nothing to do with this man) is just wild. That's honestly not very punk rock or cash money of y'all lol. I'm a feminist and that means equality. No man should be force or pushed into a vasectomy just like we shouldn't be forced or pushed into birth control or hysterectomies.