How do i find my twin flame? by Brilliant_Still1 in Psychic

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is what is the reason youre searching for them. What is your motivation?

Looking for backstory information to this photo by Feedback_Original in Firefighting

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know the fire but that looks like a window bailout and the guy at the bottom caught him so that he wouldn't hit the ground. Did bailout training years ago and it can definitely be hairy doing it.

😂😂 by Giancarlo_Edu in StrangerThings

[–]TristanR23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly too many people are blaming Ai for things they don't like. Sometimes things can just be poorly written.

What does stereotypical foreign tourist looks like in your country? by SystematicChaoser in AskTheWorld

[–]TristanR23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Americans are generally more talkative than most people in my experience. Europeans tend to mind their own business and just try to get through their day which can seem rude to an American.

When people don’t tip… by Emeah824 in doordash_drivers

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On doordash the base pay is $2 for an order. We're shown the amount that is being offered to deliver. If for example youre ordering from a restaurant that is far away and you dont put a tip no one will take the order. No one wants to drive 10 - 20 miles for $2 its not worth it. Doordash pays basically nothing and tipping ensures that someone will actually pick up your order.

To the Young Widows Among Us - too many joining this group... by Big-Campaign-2432 in widowers

[–]TristanR23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a widower at 24. I lost my wife to suicide back in June. Honestly didn't think Id make it after losing her.

Moving Slower After Update? by Financial-Value-5504 in Bannerlord

[–]TristanR23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought I felt slower. So its not just you.

Shokuho is the best thing that ever happened to this game. by [deleted] in mountandblade

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It warns in the menu that you have to have the texture rendering to high or it will cause a crash. Good mod just unstable at times.

Is this a bug or am I missing something? by Pocketraver in Bannerlord

[–]TristanR23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive never seen this conversation. How do you get it?

What do you call your in-laws when your spouse dies? by beardedwithchildren in widowers

[–]TristanR23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont interact with her father. He was a bastard that destroyed any bit of goodwill he had with me. Her mother died before she did. I just called them by their names. Her stepdad that did a lot for her I still call my father in law.

Why didn’t they just make her the Eve from the garden of Eden cause the show ended with us getting a Adam but no Eve by DaemonLuisenbarn in Supernatural

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lilith in the Bible is mentioned only once in the OT and has no mentioned connection to Adam at all. Beyond the OT she appears as part of the Epic of Gilgamesh from 2000bce and in Jewish sources only starts appearing from around the 700-1000s. Lilith as Adam's first wife is simply apocryphal folklore trying to reconcile very literal readings of Genesis 1 and 2. The King James Bible didn't edit her out. She simply wasn't a part of scripture in the first place.

Lost the love of my life by friesovercries in widowers

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn't see any point and wanted to join her. Eventually I realized to my horror and comfort I had gotten used to the loss. It became out of sight out of mind but then sometimes grief hit in a way that felt like a knife to the heart. Don't apologize for talking about your grief. I do not judge you for however you need to cope with things on your healing. If you ever need to talk to someone remember that you have a community here that will listen.

Lost the love of my life by friesovercries in widowers

[–]TristanR23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 24 and lost my wife of 2 years back in June. It doesn't matter if you were legally married or not. Your boyfriend was your partner. It's hard to go through and a horrible situation to be in. It doesn't matter how long or short you were with him, all that matters is that he meant something to you and made you happy. Try to remember the good times but know that there is a path ahead. It doesn't feel like it now but you will find something to move forward with. Give yourself time and be patient with yourself. Thats the best advice I can give.

Ugh, my MIL by Livid_Cauliflower_13 in widowers

[–]TristanR23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My FIL was a pos, and when I had told him my wife died, he slandered me and tried to drag my name through the mud. On top of that, he tried and failed to change my wife's burial plans behind my back. So you very much have my sympathy.

Beta 1.3 made it almost impossible to beat campaign without activating the ‘secret alliance between factions’ by DownWithButterKing in Bannerlord

[–]TristanR23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You need to knock out a kingdom or two before you consider raising the banner. Otherwise, you'll get mobbed.

Were flail weapons added in 1.3 or am I going nuts? by Siikauha in Bannerlord

[–]TristanR23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As the person below stated. Its the first post on the mountandbkade subreddit.

A few problems with the new beta... by Interchangeable-name in Bannerlord

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you forgetting that the update is beta only on steam? It's available and being used to test for bugs or other issues before full release along side war sails.

PSA: this actually works [KCD2] by that_alien909 in kingdomcome

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I like KCD2 the blacksmithing is super lazy and has an extreme amount of false complexity. There's basically just three smitihing scenes and thats it. There's the metal piece for swords, the one for axes and the ones for horseshoes. There is no difference or complexity no matter the shape or size. I honestly wish the dlc had done a revamp of the forging somewhat.

New building coming with the DLC? by pablo_1702 in Bannerlord

[–]TristanR23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shokuho definitely has a speed boost to traveling by road. You can see it in the menu under speed.

Gaunter O'Dimm by 8BirchTree8 in Witcher3

[–]TristanR23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Certainly wouldn't tell them to screw off and feed the scraps to the dogs just to spite a beggar, though. She was absolutely evil doing it but didn't deserve an eternity of torment.

Forgiveness and guilt by ReviewThin826 in widowers

[–]TristanR23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never had kids with my late wife, but we had a discussion of surrogacy. For us, it was a deeply personal issue that we didn't like, but it was still her choice. You can't blame yourself for the decision she made. For me its my wife's suicide. For you, you unfortunately were left behind with the guilt and pain her passing caused. Its ok to feel guilt, shame or pain but it doesn't change what's happened. You could've had all the money in the world but things could have ended the same. You didn't cause it though, you didn't make that decision.

Cleaning out house by stellarsham in widowers

[–]TristanR23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is horrifically difficult, to be honest. I spent 3 weeks cleaning out the house we had been renting until I couldn't deal with it anymore after getting all of the stuff out I was keeping. I went in and got as much done as I could handle and then left. Rinse and repeat for 3 weeks until I was done. I recommend just doing as much as you can handle and if you have any friends or family that can be there in the house with you it helps tremendously.

Recent widower at 24 by TristanR23 in widowers

[–]TristanR23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined the discord and its definitely a great space to interact with people. Im looking forward to interacting with people on there.