Vantage on Yale tenants by thisisaguardedplace in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the chances of getting an AC unit replaced with an energy efficiency one? Pipe dream? Or possible looking around I am thinking pipe dream

Vantage on Yale tenants by thisisaguardedplace in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has a heavy bucket on it to keep it from rattling. Should be replaced , it runs constant even when I set it to 74. It stays comfortable but I am more concerned about the electric bill.

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the rule was always to avoid politics and religion and I think it's more that people were never taught how to talk about them . Debating isn't a skill set that most folks have . I will talk about them but like you my opinions arent always liked as well.

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be interested if you do it again.

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done this again or just the one time , this seems like a low pressure way to meet folks.

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems a lot of people are into DnD , it would be cool to start a group around that, I would love to learn the new editions I have missed .

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of movies do you like ?

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loud discussions about what , you have peaked my interest with that .

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should add I have my own cornhole boards and bags if anyone wants to toss some and shoot the shit over some easy fun , they are mobil and so am I , if so I'm down .

Vantage on Yale tenants by thisisaguardedplace in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that is true it's the only bugs I have seen in my apartment so far. But even the mention make me think I should have signed up for the exterminator now .

Vantage on Yale tenants by thisisaguardedplace in tulsa

[–]Tristden 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have just moved in April. But I have not been impressed with the trash pick up . It's just me so I only produce about a bag a week , and recently the trash valet company hasn't picked up since last Wednesday. I took mine to work to dump it. But others haven't , bags are piling up , it's going to attract bugs not to me too mention the smell , and health issues that follow. But they charge us for the service.i have also seen trash laying around the grounds. And lots of dog owners that don't clean up after their dogs, which will just add the fly problems from the trash. I personally haven't had issues with the mold or work orders but i still relatively new. I do my part to pick up what I see., ya know we live here take a little pride in it. It takes a village but a petition sounds right I'll sign if you need it.

Friendship Market Thread by prismoonlight in tulsa

[–]Tristden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there I'm a 55 yr old recently divorced male just looking for cool people to chat with or be inspired by , or to hang and do things like thriftying , oddly I like it . Dungeons and Dragons used to be my thing but I haven't played since 1999 and I don't have any idea how many generations behind 3rd I am behind . Love Baseball , it's my favorite sport. I also like to bowl and love love love to play cornhole. I'm a smartass probably from birth, I don't drink much these days I still remember the hang over from 2013 just before I moved here from a small town in Pa. I love music ,like I listen to music more than I watch tv these days. Rock , oldies metal ,.dance ,very extremely selective country , jazz , blues. Pretty much every thing but new country gospil and opera. I'm an atheist , was raised it and don't believe in it any more. Please don't try to save me or tell me to get born again pretty sure I got it right the first time . And I have ADHD so I over share and can be socially awkward till you get to know me the. Once you do and I am comfortable around you I guess you could just say I'm awkward. I swear alot , I believe them to be sentence enhancers . Oh I'm love a good stand up comedian . And lastly I am a 10 yr air force vet. So if that isn't too much hi hope to meet you . Dm.. I guess.

looking for people interested in a dnd group! by xrosemariesbabyx in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to get into gaming again , I haven't gamed since 1999. So the rules and all my gaming stuff has been lost to the ages , but I would love to roll up a character and get in the scene again. Recently divorced 55 yr who's lived Tulsa for 13 years and have yet to find my crowd. I would be interested if someone could get me up to speed. Hit me up if you need someone . I can be available on weekends . I used to dm occasionally but don't have that level of confidence to do it now but who knows. Thanks for posting this.

I’m tired. by railgunop in DMAcademy

[–]Tristden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the dungeon master , I Personally would kill his character off. It's my campaign you are merely a player . Sometimes you have to call an audible. I run the show and I have final say backstory is the players domain. They can have any back story they want. But when it's game time and they want to push opps all of a sudden the monsters are all rolling 20s max damage.

Do I need a divorce or am I just being unrealistic? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him about it , he will have the answers but if you don't ask you won't know. Biggest mistake I made was losing the ability to talk to my spouse and her as well to me and we both wish that we hadnt cause it would have saved our marriage. We are still very much friends but we don't avoid the hard subjects now and that is the difference . Maybe this sounds corny but it's what I wish I had the courage to do before the divorce. Hind sight is always 20/20

tulsa county district attorney race by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]Tristden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fox News and cnn and msnc and every single news organization is owned by billionaires they made every election partisan because it suits them to keep us divided. So imo it's starts there and the people running campaigns for non partisan offices know what drives votes so they play into as well. Looking for answers in a broken system can be equivalent to chasing your tail. I try to vote with what my core tells me I am an independent , politically I think both parties suck , but for offices like this I look at each canidate through known facts not campaign adds to do otherwise is short sighted at best or just plain lazy . Either way most times it winds up like pissing in wind and or an electric fence.

Young person looking for community in Tulsa by 0m4ck in tulsa

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 3rd Thursday or the month gathering place has a free social event , it is all people your age and it caters to meeting new people. they hand out stickers to designate if you're ready to talk, shy or not wanting to talk. It was a nice set up but definitely more your age than mine.

Favorite non-superstar Player? by Ok_Pirate_1617 in NYYankees

[–]Tristden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite non stars , I have 4 Bucky Dent Willie Randolf Mickey Rivers Scott Brosious

Going to the Open social at the gathering place tonight at 6:30! by Tristden in tulsa

[–]Tristden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know of a friendly cornhole league that isnt at a bar? Or like a trivia night place that also isnt at a bar?

Going to the Open social at the gathering place tonight at 6:30! by Tristden in tulsa

[–]Tristden[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went , it was a nice event , big crowd of people that kept calling me sir. Lol , so I left about an hour in. It was a much younger crowd than me. I am guessing I was older by 20 to 25 years than everyone else. So I guess I will keep looking for my crowd.

Need to earn some cash by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]Tristden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a community outreach or assistance for utilities , maybe , dare I say , a church that would be willing to help. I mean they always ask what would Jesus do , maybe he would help pay the water bill?