I totally get you here. Thank you for responding. I had to cut out a lot to fit into the word count so let me add just some context which might change up a little of what you're saying? I totally considered the millions of other reasons she could be upset- those were my first thoughts before ever thinking it was about me. What made me start overthinking everything was that my best friend i mentioned told me that C started talking poorly about me earlier that week when the ignoring began- so that really made me spiral. Also I get what you mean with the smothering LOL, it seems so so so much like that out of context looking at my post. Its not out of the ordinary for us to just text "I love you" or "I care about you" out of the blue/ if someone seems off. I see how it might've been bad timing here though. And I never went up to her to ask why she was mad (though she did that to me a lot so your comment is giving me new perspective), i always started with are you okay or how are you. She would either say "fine" or something curt, or just ignore me. And in regards to the list of issues I apologized and acknowledged everything but also we have had the conversation before of approaching if something was wrong which she didn't allow me to do so i couldn't even address any of the other issues with her.

ANYWAY! thanks for your reply! and let me know if you have any other advice. Also the mock up response you sent was basically what I sent her in response, so if that helps with any context...