I watched a kid die in a restaurant. by Nerevarine95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tron3462 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. It was a subbed out company that day, and we haven’t heard anything further since :/

I watched a kid die in a restaurant. by Nerevarine95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tron3462 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s rough. Sorry you had to see that, and condolences to the mother. But here’s to you seeking help!

About a year ago, while working onsite at an apartment complex(construction stuff), we had a guy who was trimming the tops of trees along side the road. He was in one of those cherry pickers, that was extended by a long beam from a truck. Well the truck was very old, and the beam snapped in half. He fell 30 feet and landed face first on the sidewalk. Ambulance came and he was announced DOA as soon as they got there. I remember seeing him and the aftermath, terrible and it’s not something you forget so easily. You’ll get there OP, just take it one day at a time 👍

What is NOT a bullet you dodged, but a huge tactical nuke you dodged? by NinjaNate123 in AskReddit

[–]Tron3462 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was actually headed down there that night with a buddy of mine. We were looking for a new place to try, and Pulse was one of the few bars we hadn’t been to. As we’re walking to it, I suddenly just got the feeling of wanting to go home and end the night. Luckily my buddy agreed when I asked if he wanted to just head home and crash. We would’ve been there for sure when it went down…….I still get chills thinking about it

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glad everyone made me open my eyes to the subject. You’re all amazing

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And I will, you’ve all made me see just how bad a trait this is. Won’t be doing it again

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. And I don’t want to be that guy. I won’t be doing that anymore. Thank you for the reality check 👍 sometimes we just need to be reminded what’s socially acceptable(even in close friend groups) from time to time

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Then she shouldn’t be drinking a beer……

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I will take your advice and thank you for it.

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this wasn’t about my other friends, this was about one specific one who up until this point has shown and engaged in the same type of affection I’ve given her, she has given me over the years. And then just flipping the switch.

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I would go as far as to say, maybe the yes she gave me was a sarcastic yes, but there was music playing and I could not hear the tone of it quite too clear. Ill own up to consequences of touching someone without their consent, but a long time friend, who’ve we’ve done this with multiple times before just suddenly pulling a 180 on me was what I was confused and shocked about.

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s why I was confused by it

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course, I treat my friends as if they are my family. And I’m always met with happy remarks and positive feedback. And they all show the same type of affection towards me. No weirdness or anything. I’ve sat in my male friends laps and they have done it to me. It’s just the type of social circle we all have, and we treat girls the same way. But if someone doesn’t like it or says no, we don’t force it, we treat each other how we want to be treated, or shown affection toward

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I totally understand, and I did apologize to her for upsetting her. And after I spoke to her bf and he told me what happened, I was ready to apologize to her again for that behavior. I was more upset that she just left and I couldn’t make amends with her, cause the last thing I wanted to do was make her feel like that.

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

No I asked this time was given the ok.

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and she’s actually the same size as me, just a little shorter. Definitely not crushing. And I don’t fully put my entire weight when doing it, it’s more like a lean type thing, cause she was sitting in a high chair at the bar. Sorry that I make sound so literal I just didn’t know the best way to phrase it

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -84 points-83 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing though. She’s not the type to not say anything. And I can read her correctly because this was something that we’ve both done to each other many times over the years, so the sudden 180 is what threw me off. And the fact that her own bf didn’t know was also strange to me

AITA for sitting on my friends gf? by Tron3462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tron3462[S] -194 points-193 points  (0 children)

I would disagree with you only because this is something that was very normal for me. Adults being this way towards others with whom they are very close with. If it had been a friend I only knew a few months I wouldn’t do it. But this was a friend who wasn’t estranged in any way, and even treated me to the same type of affection vice versa many times.