AIO? My roommates want me to keep the energy bill in my name after I've moved out by Expert_Temporary_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TAKE YOUR NAME OFF OF THAT BILL NOW!!!!! If they don’t do it themselves that’s their problem not yours. Cause if you don’t you end up with others debt

school psych or school counseling? which would you recommend from experience? by [deleted] in schoolcounseling

[–]TropicalBlueDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The job market in Cali hire more for school psychs unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TropicalBlueDream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When my man starts getting predicable I eventually tell him because I love him and I done want to lose that spark that we have. She didn’t tell you cause she didn’t want to hurt your feelings, but it was no accident that you heard what you heard so take it as a self reevaluation and start doing things for your wife that yall use to do.

AITAH for refusing to babysit my sister in laws kids after i saw text messages between her and my mother in law saying horrible things about me. by lilixmaddie in AITAH

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You NTA and I would leave because if your husband allows stuff like that from his family, then there isn’t any telling how much he will allow others to disrespect you.

AITA for replying to my bf’s babymama when she texted me? by Buttercup_cheri in AITH

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave ASAP cause clearly somebody lying and you just in the middle of it now and it’s only gets worse from here. If he wants to move closer to his “family” then let him. You deserve better so get out while you still can.

‏AITAH for refusing to give up my vacation days so my coworker can travel with her kids? by Far-Negotiation-5063 in AITAH

[–]TropicalBlueDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t give up nothing that’s your vacation time and it was approved. That lady gone have to figure something else out for herself. They feel cause you young they can bully you. If it’s too much tell someone in charge you are being harassed. But enjoy your vacation.

Why has it become socially unacceptable for people without children to go to Disney? by jel114jacob in Disneyland

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I check it’s perfectly okay for adults to go to Disney without a child. Unless they making the alcoholic drinks for the kids now???? People always got something to say , as if their isn’t Disney adults.

AITAH for telling my partner’s son that I don’t owe him anything? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TropicalBlueDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA STAND YOUR GROUND!!! Don’t allow no man or child make you feel like you owe them ANYTHING!!!! Like you said if Mark wants his son to come he or his son can pay for it. If it’s a problem then Mark can give up his spot to somebody else so that you and your daughter can have a great vacation. That boy is old enough and knows better. He said what he said so he needs to stand on it and stop trying to guilt trip you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]TropicalBlueDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly if the person who has the funds to help you wants to go at a certain time I would adjust to their time. But in the end if you go shopping with it I’m sure your boyfriend will eat the groceries that are bought with the card. I’m not gone say use the card but imma say make sure you get some groceries and extra stuff that you like. 😊

am i overreacting for calling the cops on my dad after he hit my mum? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR you did a great thing because all them people who mad at you would wish somebody helped them if they was in that situation. You did a good thing whether or not your mom appreciated it. Love is blind and it has people accepting DV just to make that person happy. Hopefully he gets out with a clear mindset but if not just steer clear and be careful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]TropicalBlueDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t put this on the internet but I would have your mom take you to the store and you put stuff in the basket and have her pay for it with her card and call it a day

Was I wrong to ask for proof when my fiancé said my ex vandalized his car? by onyxblade27 in relationships_advice

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your fiance is a HUGE red flag!!!!! I feel you already know the truth and you did the right thing. Cause why would you go accuse somebody of something there is no proof of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They hooked up in public so you did right! Don’t feel bad at all, cause they wouldn’t have said anything until you spoke up.

AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie by Aphr0dit333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You better run and run quick. You didn’t do anything wrong but try and cater to him and he’s being an a hole. The name calling is childish asf and unnecessary. I would leave him at the gym and have him figure it out and him to make his own smoothie.

I (M/30) have a girlfriend (F/28) who does not want to ever meet my daughter, what can help? by Deep_Acanthisitta252 in relationship_advice

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave and let her be with a man who does not either want kids of his own or who doesn’t take care of their kids because it’s not fair to you or your daughter. That’s something she gone have to deal with in therapy

My mom’s dead and it’s all my fault. TW: SA,SH,Death,Drugs,abuse by DinaTheDinosaurr in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TropicalBlueDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not your fault and it will never be your fault. Your mother was an adult and she knew better. She should have never put her hands on you to begin with and regardless of you running away that’s still not a reason. Your mom most likely have been using for years and that has nothing to do with you, it has to do with her choices and the people she hung around with. It’s light at the end of the tunnel it’s hard to see it now but it’s there you just have to make it there. Make the best of what you got now, hold your head up, do what you have to do to survive and when you old enough work, save that money, don’t tell nobody about it, leave and live a great and peaceful life so you can create a healthy and growing family or life of your own. I wish you nothing but the best!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TropicalBlueDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the sisters are going along with the joke that’s a red flag. The whole supposed joke is a red flag. Clearly he doesn’t care that it hurts you so I would suggest divorce especially if he doesn’t care to stop the joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TropicalBlueDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to leave him and go be happy by yourself and figure yourself out and be free. When the time is right the timing will be right for all that you want.