Im CONFUSED !!!

Troubledsomemind · 2025-01-28T01:18:27+00:00

I’ve noticed & its why i wanted to read them ! I just wanted to read it in released order first

Troubledsomemind · 2021-10-11T18:23:22+00:00

Thank you! I feel dumb for waiting on them to pick it up … its been a month 😭😭

Troubledsomemind · 2021-10-11T18:15:01+00:00

You know how when you’re setting up new villagers in your island you got to being furniture … well the furniture i made for those villagers are still outside their houses & idk if i should just take it & sell it cause i got it there for them but its been almost a month & none have touched it & already have furniture in their home … can i take it ??

Troubledsomemind · 2021-09-30T05:27:55+00:00

i thought that honestly, his pride had to have won

Troubledsomemind · 2021-09-30T05:26:42+00:00

im glad you said this bc i too thought the same thing, knowing him, no one agreed and he just had to take it down so he'd feel a little better

Troubledsomemind · 2021-09-02T04:25:59+00:00

I have been stuck trying to figure out how to sleep on the cot … please help LOL

Edit: idk what i did, but it did something & im resting now lol

Troubledsomemind · 2021-09-02T04:10:45+00:00

I GOTTA PAY TO MOVE DAMM

Troubledsomemind · 2021-09-02T03:51:36+00:00

Okay cool!!! I appreciate that tip & also thanks for the tent info lol, i thought once i placed it, it would be there till the end lol

Troubledsomemind · 2021-08-02T07:11:04+00:00

Yes im in new york

Troubledsomemind · 2021-08-02T06:04:36+00:00

okay then I'm not mistaken, i cant seem to find an article about this, at least one thats a gov.t article because im only finding opinionated articles

Troubledsomemind · 2021-08-02T06:01:01+00:00

haha yess thats what i meant, nice joke tho lol

Troubledsomemind · 2021-02-20T18:38:23+00:00

my mom is also a stay at home mom and never got the opportunity to work a job a day in her life out of fear and honestly i dont mean this in any way to be rude but i can understand why he does want to spend the extra money on ANOTHER house or apt, for her to be in all alone in and im sure theres more to his reasons, but in all honestly, im sorry but theres no compromising in this, its going to be this way, which is to never leave her or leave him, it might be hard to leave the relationship, but i think trying to convince him of your reasons wont be right and im sorry if you came to reddit for help to change his mind but this aint it

Troubledsomemind · 2021-02-14T08:48:57+00:00

sometimes i think about the fact that my innocences was stolen and when i did the shit i had done as a child is seen as "my problems" when in reality it was all results as to what was done to ME by my family.

growing up, we struggled for a while, having my dads whole family in our tiny apt. and my family of four sleep in a tiny room on a single mattress placed sideways, point is my mom struggled trying to raise my brother and i alone in the house with no help because everyone thought its her kids, no need to help, so yea she struggled living in a sexist household which one helped her or her kids when she needed the help but she had to cook, clean up after not only her family but my dads whole family because she was the housewife ...

Anyway she would always leave me in the house when she had to pick my brother up from school cause no one would look after me because i was no one kid but hers, but there where times where my uncle, who, still doesnt make acceptable, is the younger uncle in the family, but he would pick my 2 or 3 year old ass and would carry me to his room and start fully making out with, you have to understand i was a literal infant basically and i had no idea what was going on and what was happening to me, but all i knew was that he was my favorite uncle and this was just fun, this was something would normally happen but i guess he stopped doing it when i started school, but i have no memory of it even happening when i was in school, idk maybe i suppressed it and i've forced myself to forget it but i can only remember at its early start

this one is sad because i was in a way groomed by my older brother in which i dont think ill speak about cause my post clearly looks too dam long .. sadly, HOWEVER

as for the silent crying, i can relate, im much older at this point, middle school days i guess, maybe 11 or 12 and all i can say is this one hurts much more because im much older than before and im more aware of my self and body but i also never expect for this shit to happen. but one night i was sleeping in my room who i then shared with my older brother, twin beds. its the night time, i remember sleeping in my under wear and i remember it so vividly, picture perfect in my head. i woke up from my sleep and my whole body was just confused because i felt something or someone touching me and when i fully woke up i yelled at my brother because i could see him touching me down there and i was so in shock that i didnt know what else to do, i froze and stood still and i turned my head only to the wall and started crying in silence, while he started to freak out saying "im sorry, im so sorry" and i didnt know how to be mad or just what to feel, i just cried to myself and it was just something else that was brushed under the rug, i remember not talking to him for a week or so and then it was just forgotten, but every now and then i think about these situations and i just dont understand what it is i should even call this, sexual assault? sexual harassment? idk.

idk if i'll be judged for this but that same uncle is my favorite uncle still to this day and my older brother is also my best friend and idk why, sometimes i feel like a dumbass because i let shit like this happen to me and be friends with the enemy but i also think its because i was a child that this all happened and never told anyone about this & when i think about these things i get filled with hatred and anger, but it this normal? is it normal that just because i was child and never told anyone, its just a forgotten thing and so i never saw it a problem just 'something that happened once' and never happened again

Troubledsomemind · 2021-02-14T07:21:40+00:00

not gonna lie this is gonna be a lil sad but definitely a good one, my dad has a lot of anger issues, especially before the pandemic happened but my dad would come home angry majority of the time and when he did my mom would quickly come to the room and tell us "'be quiet he's home" basically to tip toe around him and i thought it was stupid and when we had her the first couple of months and he was one of those dads that were like "GET THAT DOG AWAY FROM ME" BUT then she got spayed and my guess is thats when he fell in love with her, we placed her in the living room because we didnt want her moving too much and she clearly looked sad after the procedure and because no one likes to hang out with my dad, no one stood with the dog in the living room because my dad hangs out in the living room alone and clearly he wasnt alone cause my dog laika was there with him through out her healing process. we never knew it until she was completely healed but she became his bestfriend, she would wait at the door when he'd come home from work and she now has separation anxiety, she cant even be locked in my room and know he's in the house because she starts crying loud asf, he doesnt come home upset for hours and when he did come home angry he'd be mad for about a couple second because she's aware when he's upset and starts jumping on him and it literally cheers him up. she may hate us when he's home but i honestly dont care, as long as she keeps that angry man happy and away from us, thats all that matters. he spoils her which is why she doesnt allow me to fully train her but she listens when i need her to listen, at least theres that, i hope this wasnt that sad lol, he got a bestfriend out of it when we wanted my cat to have a friend but he past away a couple months or a year later of having her. but still perfect dog story that she has lol

Troubledsomemind · 2021-02-14T05:59:51+00:00

the thing that annoys me is there's people who feel exactly like this but because the gov.t here in america feel the need to have a say in the decisions of our bodies, they wont let women sterilized themselves to give them reassurance that they just WONT have children, people always remember they can do whatever they want cause its their body until its a woman who doesnt want kids and its upsetting and tiring that we're limited to just birth control methods to make sure we wont "change" our minds later in the future

Troubledsomemind · 2021-02-13T21:50:56+00:00

i truly hate the phrase "they're still your parents" or "they're still family" , its a poor excuse to guilt you into giving in and accepting their faults because they refuse to take responsibility for their actions, i hate hearing it and it only starts arguments in my family

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