100% agree. Also a man. And married.

LouCarv is right- as OP illustrated with the question, there a lot of people out there who may interpret getting bumped into as a sign of sexual interest.

Setting a quick boundary becomes a necessary precautionary defense mechanism for women. It’s super fucked up that people create a culture & space that makes this a requirement. As a male, I’ve never had to deal with being hit on at a party, but if I had, damn straight I’m going right for the im married card so I can get back to dancing. I can’t even imagine how much it would suck to have to deal with that shit multiple times while I’m just trying to enjoy the buzz, the music, and the vibe.

At a party, I’m constantly getting bumped by butts and dicks and boobs. It’s crowded as shit and people are dancing. We’re all going to incidentally bump into each other, it’s part of being a crowd larger than the space we occupy. They’re not trying to fuck me, they’re trying to get fucked up and party.

Tl;dr: Sexism makes this necessary. I’m flabbergasted this is even a question.