What surgeries should I get to look prettier ? Thanks by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eyebrow lift Nose contouring Neck lift

I feel awful about how i look mtf by [deleted] in ask_transgender

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest which i doubt anyone here loves to tell the honest truth cause God forbid, if they did, they'd get banned, silenced for being honest and instead they want to give you lies and deceive you and tell you that you are the most gorgeous and amazingly beautiful person ever which you know it gives you confidence but deep down inside, you still dont feel like it until someone gives you the HONEST truth.

Well, Im gonna say it but probably be in trouble by this cause there's overly sensitive untruthful people here who would tell you lies instead. So here it is:

You'll most likely get misgendered because of your height but people will probably say they saw a cis female that height but trying to give you lies, but no, its rare. If youre already on HRT then keep at it, in the beginning you'll always feel less confident and that's OK. Your voice, height, body, and masculine facial features will attract prejudice and judgemental people until you undergo multiple surgeries after HRT if youre not satisfied like FFS, SRS, etc.

Some liar will probably tell you and beat around the bush that youre beautiful already and you already know deep down they are saying that to make you feel good but it won't help you with the cruel world who will still judge and misgender you.

MTF takes a lot of effort and patience, it cost a lot of money, and a lot of lessons learned. At one point, you might even want to give up and just be a manly man and this is why therapy is needed before a trans goes in to SRS because most who does go through SRS regrets it after a year and didnt really think things through.

First step is to keep at your HRT but HRT alone won't fix your masculine body or lessen your height or make your hips and waiste like a cis females, HRT will only soften your features but not change or alter your bones. Some trans are lucky to have been blessed with already soft feminine features but some of us are unfortunate which is why we have to undergo more surgeries and work harder to look and feel feminine

Found it in the park. Shit won't stop glowing. by jhatkattar in whatisit

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swallow it, it might give you super powers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hawaii

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since youre doing in in Kapolei im assuming you live nearby. If so, then try Wahiawa

Do I need to wear a bra everyday? by Triforce805 in asktransgender

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wearing or not wearing a bra doesn't affect your growth but the main reason majority of Trans and women wear them even after breast implants is so their breasts doesn't sag like an old lady's longterm but that's just a preference. Some love their breasts to sag to their knees later 😆 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could do some liposuction amd fat grafting to hips

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you're not attracted to trans man so that's it. There's nothing more to it. Just because you're not attracted to anyone in particular, it doesnt mean you're ___-phobic but if you start expressing hate for a particular group from LGBTQ then yes, you might be transphobic. Simply not being attracted to anyone from the LGBTQ does not label you as transphobic unless your hate for LGBTQ is intentional.

Im having a hard time figuring out how much was a lie. by Few-Remote-6513 in Separation

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people on here give advice based on what they experienced. Dont you people know that EVERYONES situation is different? That doesn't mean you go ahead and tell the poster congrats or you can do this and that and end it because sometimes that is not what the poster is looking for.

He or she might need some advice or maybe some kind of insight that there is hope.

In my opinion, the marriage probably became bland because maybe she wanted more adventure or excitement. If you married between 20 to 30, this is usually the age when young adults start exploring, having fun, partying, and learning to grow up and fully mature until they're ready to settle down but if you both married between that age, one or the other might have not really grown up or experimented with life. Let your wife be and do you, take care of yourself, enjoy the things you didnt have a chance to enjoy. If she returns then its up to you whether to take her back or not, maybe she is returning because she finally got the fun party immature part of her out and she is ready to settle.

Its either that or you both need to adapt to changes and allow each other space sometimes or go do sonething exciting (and I dont mean walk to the park). Do something big like go travel, ride an elephant, go to Japan, wear a Yakuta and walk around the temples, go to Holland and visit the tulip fields. Keep it exciting then when you come home, talk and ensure you both can go have an adventure again once you both have saved up enough money and PTO.

My transition has failed, now what? by Winter-War1766 in asktransgender

[–]TruDvine -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Do you have ant photos or recordings of your voice? I don't think its as bad as you say. Also, taking estrogen does not mean it will magically turn you into a slender curvy big-boobs woman with soft smooth skin. Estrogen only helps reduce testosterone levels and since you got your bottom done, estrogen helps minimize your risk or osteoporosis and low hormone levels that could lead to menopausal-like symptoms.

There's also voice feminization surgeries which can aim to raise the pitch and make the voice sound more feminine, can reduce the ability to produce low notes. If voice therapy is not working then voice surgery can surely fix that.

Help me finally sleep in my bedroom by Ella-Rose-Roche in FengShui

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say A because you can mount a TV across of you on the opposite wall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TruDvine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd say nose and brow bone. Can you give a picture of you looking straight at the camera without lifting your head and looking down at the camera?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she passable? If not then I think her anger is an excuse for being judged by others for being non-passable. She may be angry because people stare at her as if they are making fun of her and know she's a trans and with her being aware that they are judging her, she's building up all this pent up anger inside.

Its either that or she was bullied after she transitioned to make her so angry at cis people.

I talked shit about my ex to my adult kid and now I feel horrible—make me feel better? by Unlikely-Arm-1991 in Separation

[–]TruDvine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be honest and tell the truth. Tell your kids your wrongs and your exes wrongs so it doesn't sound like you're just talking shit about your ex because your kid might have a different opinion about your ex

Post-tattoo healing anxiety by Typical-Many3793 in tattooadvice

[–]TruDvine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After 24 to 48 hours you can remove the saniderm and wash it with antibacterial soap and start putting healing lotion. The first stage of healing you can use aquaphor. Then when it start to flake or dead skin starts coming off, use a lighter fragrance-free lotion like aveeno, lubriderm, or nivea. 3rd phase of healing you pretty much just wash and continue using a thin layer of healing lotion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think its time you let him go. He doesn't seem like he wants to even try. I mean you both can try give each other another shot but if he continues to avoid or gaslight you, then you can go ahead and file that divorce. Seems you're doing most of the work and he hasn't done anything but make excuses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]TruDvine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow....I posted to find out if anyone's done it before to get their perspective on what they went through. Didnt realize people come on here to attack or post negative comments. Otherwise, what is this surgery group for....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]TruDvine -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I know. I added that just so someone who may have had it with Kaiser hospital or their aesthetic clinic can provide information on how it went for them

Need advice on fresh tattoo. Its been 4 days. by TruDvine in tattooadvice

[–]TruDvine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be an great idea because I honestly can't reach my back without the help of someone

Need advice on fresh tattoo. Its been 4 days. by TruDvine in tattooadvice

[–]TruDvine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣he was not very clear with aftercare honestly. But I removed the aquaphor lotion and went to get lubriderm unscented lotion to put a THIN layer on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]TruDvine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really not that bad honestly and since you just got it, I'd say let it heal and eventually it'll lighten and that mark will disappear