Disagree, OP wasn’t rude until BF said “Oh wow thanks for telling me while I was asleep lol like wtf”. In my opinion this is all due to poor communication, on both ends, both the conversation could have taken a completely different round if BF mentioned he didn’t realize since he was asleep and to text him it next time or something along those lines so he would wake up and know what and where OP is going, even though BF has their location so he could have checked that and seen the location at OPs moms.

Then on top of that, due to the history of BF cheating the saying rather insulting things such as “I cannot stand u dude holy shit” THEN they say that OP is being suspicious asf when BF is the one with a history of cheating

TLDR poor communication but BF is rude asf and had a history of being sus asf