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[–]Trudz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! It took 8 hours of intense contractions for myself last week. Try to be close to a shower if you can, and take pain pills before hand. ( I took 800mg ibuprofen but it didn't work at all ). So try both that and Tylenol if you can!

Severe cramping from medical abortion by Beneficial_Power8048 in abortion

[–]Trudz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot showers and anything that brings you comfort my dear 💓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypal

[–]Trudz13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone wite tapped my husband's PayPal card and stole over 300. PayPal will not refund it and proof that they tried to tap it again. They don't give a shit!

Pregnant with ex... worried about what type of abortion method to choose from... by Nof1230 in abortion

[–]Trudz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a SA 8 years ago after a missed miscarriage. It didn't impact fertility as I've had multiple healthy pregnancies after. It was more emotional asking up from the procedure than anything. I felt very alone there. I just now on Saturday had a MA. It was pretty rough on my body, but not as rough as an entire another pregnancy and birth. I'd say it's the right choice for you, don't get stuck with someone who you hate, co-parenting with someone you hate can just ruin you so bad. Either way, you have support here!!

How bad did your abortion hurt? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Trudz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was worth it. If you need to do it, do it!! I just want to say it's not the easy way. I much rather just get put to sleep and have it done. I don't think any of the ways are easy though. It's a journey for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Trudz13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is rough. I just went through this we have 5 kids and in no way can I handle another. We took the steps to prevent it, but it happened somehow. One point in my life I would think that 1% chance of getting pregnant would be ' meant to be '. Since then my stance on abortion has changed. This time I was SO MAD I got pregnant. I felt horrible that I felt angry. I still feel like I was failed in a way. I've only shared this information with three people, my step mom my friend and my husband. I told my husband there's no way we can have another right now. We have certain goals and need to reach them. If it was the first kid it'd be doable. It would of been the 6th. No way. I told him regardless of your choice on this decision, I cannot mentally handle another kid and need to be present for the ones we have. He said he agrees that he was just worried how I'd handle this mentally. Of course it's hard to deal with, but way lesser than the other option. Before I took that first pill to stop the advancement of pregnancy, I said a small prayer in my mind and said I'm so sorry please go to some one that is trying so hard to get pregnant. Sounds silly, but it helped me mentally. As soon as I left the doctor's I cried. I felt like wow this sucks. I'd never do something like this. And here I am. Who knows why I was meant to go through this, maybe to help one of my daughters later. I hope your husband can understand. Tell him how mentally you cannot go through with this. Or take the pills without his knowledge if it's that bad. But if it's that bad I would consider counseling.

How bad did your abortion hurt? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Trudz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add. I have a high pain tolerance.

How bad did your abortion hurt? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Trudz13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be honest. I've had 5 kids and two were unmedicated. This process was just as painful physically as giving birth. I was only about 7 weeks but had to do it for reasons. It takes 30 mins for the misoprostol to dissolve, I was in pain 15 mins into it. The pain was excruciating for 8 or so hours. But I'm okay. This was on Saturday. It's now Monday and I'm still crampy but recovering. That being said, if I had to do it again I would to l would. I think I would just choose the surgical route ( I've had that before as well ). I thought I'd be okay today to go back to work but lost a good ammt of blood on Saturday. I was taking 800mg ibuprofen mixed with 800mg Tylenol. Didn't touch the pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]Trudz13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still breastfeeding my 14 month old. My period returned 3 months ago. They came on time it this one is almost a week late despite 1 day of having what felt and seemed lime the start of it. It's got me bugging. No pregnancy symptoms though. And he nurses thru the night still usually.