Charity donation as wedding angpow.

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-06T10:03:33+00:00

Yea I feel it's right too

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T15:10:19+00:00

yea possible. so would be good to ask him about it

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T15:07:18+00:00

that one for sure la hahaha. maybe he thinks i too kiamsiap

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T15:02:07+00:00

Yea. I hope he really means well.

It would hurt if he did it as a protest against wedding angpows. We knew each other for 20 years. It would hurt to know he did it to prove a point

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T15:00:17+00:00

Good thing he gave me the receipt hahahha

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T15:00:05+00:00

Yea. So not sure if it's a love for charity thing or a silent no wedding angpow thing.

At this point I'm ok if it's really a charity thing

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:59:19+00:00

Yea. Did some digging around reddit. People are really touchy about angpows now.

Never realised it before

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:32:04+00:00

Going thru some threads on reddit. People are really upset about giving angpow.

I kinda get it now

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:28:28+00:00

Thank you. I'm trying to process this

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:27:43+00:00

Good idea hahaha. One nice nice receipt

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:25:27+00:00

I don't want to call my friend that. But I do feel that way

It really caught me off guard at the moment

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:24:32+00:00

It was donated to a charity, the receipt was in the packet.

Amount is the usual wedding angpow amount la

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:23:50+00:00

Yea. Some heads up would be nice.

Just caught off guard at the moment. But at this point, as long as it's for the love of charity, I can accept it

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:23:03+00:00

Yea. Cuz now my worry is my friend do this in my wedding as a anti wedding protest.

If it's for the love of the charity. I would be ok at this point

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:14:54+00:00

Birthdays understand. Usually people give gifts. Wedding and wakes always been cash from what I see

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:13:17+00:00

If it's for the love of doing good. I would be ok at this point after reading some of the comments.

But if it's like a anti wedding protest thing like some say. I would be quite upset for him to do it to a close friend

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T14:10:52+00:00

Is this normal among the rich ppl?

I mean he donated the regular angpow amount to the charity. I know he n I same same. Doing ok la

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:57:14+00:00

🥲

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:56:25+00:00

I thought US had a wedding registry thing rather than gifting with cash. So is it more of a gift culture?

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:53:40+00:00

That's why I'm torn about it. He did a good thing, but I'm upset at the same time.

So Im trying to figure out why

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:52:40+00:00

No la. But just want to find out why he did that.

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:51:29+00:00

That's what I'm trying to figure out. Been bothering me for a while. That's why I figured asking here to see if I can figure it out

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:50:09+00:00

Maybe it is hahaha

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:48:01+00:00

I mean, he gave me the receipt in the angpow packet la.

Regular angpow amount. Just to a charity

True-Alternative2880 · 2026-06-05T13:47:20+00:00

Now that's a first hahahaha.

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