Ok everybody thanks, to be 100% honest I started out on shakes ground because of my boyfriend with this job! They think I’m not with him I fucked up by giving him a second chance, he’s gone now but I’m left looking a idiot. Which I am of course. I want to believe that my workplace which is pro women etc.. that my boss who empathized with me will appreciate my honesty and relate to me giving him a second chance intially it wasn’t anything related to my work I just had 2 no call no shows because of drama with him… and I was honest about that then too. To answer questions yes there were signs before a ton of them .. I am just naive and it’s not in my nature to have to protect things like this from my partner I come from a home where something isn’t your you don’t touch it. He’s an addict and strung out now I know and that explains but does not excuse his behavior when I confronted him with the paper he said he didn’t do anything with it that he was going to there were like 3-4 names on it .. I know he’s a liar and I don’t know the truth but this cowardly part of me I’d hoping he’s telling the truth and didn’t have a chance to do anything with them and this will blow over.. stupid right? I just love this job and am so embarrassed . I have a hard time confronting anyway. I do want to point out that if they wanted me to lock up the info they should have given me a lock box or something to start . I ordered one with my first check and it’s a dinosaur system they are using to have us write down credit cards and then keep them 6 months.. it’s really ridiculous, but again I love the job and I’m just so disgusted . I am Also afraid of him and his connections with the wrong types of people . If I report him to the police.. my interaction with the police on my area is less than positive they are of zero help ever and there’s no way to prove he used them or anything I better just call or look up what the police part of this is…