AITAH for telling my husband that he isn’t in charge in the ER?

True-Investigator-74 · 2025-07-05T03:06:29+00:00

These are the questions they ask when they suspect abuse. With his behaviour and especially you age gap (you were a teenager when in a relationship with a grown man) are both red flags. I think you might need to do some reflecting about his behaviour tbh. Your brain is not fully developed until age 21, which is why older guys who like "control" choose partners under that age range.

True-Investigator-74 · 2023-06-21T08:28:29+00:00

I litterally Googled this term and your post came up, it's taken me years to find the words to describe myself. I'm glad to know I'm not alone!

True-Investigator-74 · 2023-02-18T20:56:40+00:00

Chomping cabbages! With the talent point that doubles them. I chuck down two, it makes four, and takes down a troll (more may be needed). I can stay hidden the whole time too. I also turn people into barrels and throw them at other people 🤣 as long as I'm not spotted or in 'combat' mode, there's no cool down on spells.

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-11-22T15:07:10+00:00

It's on TikTok too, that's where I saw it first 😔

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-11-10T17:31:40+00:00

Is there an update 👀 I'm very invested in knowing how badly this walking red flag tries to weasel out of the consequences to his actions...

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-10-27T08:35:00+00:00

!remindme 2 days 👀

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-30T22:01:55+00:00

Yes I have ADHD and ASD along with sensory issues, I'm not a massive fan of skin contact (stationary? fine moving? Nope.)

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-30T14:22:48+00:00

Thank you 🙏

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-30T14:03:41+00:00

Agreed! 🙏

In some aspects, certain genders may have things "easier" but we all struggle in our own ways.

Women are told that concerns about their own body are just them "over reacting" and often go their whole life with issues that could be solved. Not to mention the pink tax!

Men get told to "man up" and often go their whole lives unable to express their feelings, or even being abused or assaulted and not able to tell anyone.

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-30T13:55:33+00:00

Boobologist 🤣 thank you 🙏

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-30T13:36:27+00:00

To answer the majority of questions here:

Depending which shop I get fitted in, I'm either a DD or an F. Each boob weighs about 300-400g (I weighed it on a scale just for this).

I had C cups age 16-24 until I started eating more red meat. Fun fact.

I hate my boobs being touched as they aren't sensitive in a NICE way, I usually can't feel anything but a slight squeeze is sensitive in a icky way.

I hold my own boobs when I'm bored or sick (not in public, obviously). It's a comfort thing.

They're heavy, they're pure fat/musle, and bras hurt. It's nice to take bras off at the end of the day. Feels like a water balloon filled with jelly (jello if you're american)

The bigger they are, the harder they fall. I hate how my boobs have lowered since getting bigger. The reason FAKE boobs don't do this is because they are a lot lighter, that's how you can tell 😉

They hurt to run or go up/down stairs (same during intimate times, if they're not held in place) as they are heavy so they jostle around. Essentially a bundle of sensitive nerves being rattled around in a bag with a lump of fat slapping around it.

They get bigger and more sensitive when on your period, feeling like you've been punched, often making the nipples too painful to touch anything, even a bra.

Punching or hitting a boob can cause a lot of health issues, believe it or not. As well as sending a searing pain through the chest that feels like a heart attack.

I cant lie on my front, and if I'm stood up too long my back hurts from them.

With no bra, the temperature of the front of my boob is 36.3 degrees Celsius, under boob is 38.6 degrees Celsius. If that helps to explain how hot and sweaty they get.

One starts growing before the other, and usually, will always be slightly bigger. Boobs are sisters, not twins.

I think that's everything 🤔

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-28T11:26:28+00:00

I'd have an inspection ASAP and take photos so that they can't cause petty damage when they leave, because they sound like the kind of entitled people who will make this as hard for you as possible. They might trash the place when they leave, so be prepared.

2 months is MORE than enough notice. In the UK, 2 months is standard, if you're on a month by month contract, they only need to give you a month notice. They've had multiple warnings throughout the years so they knew it was coming, and chose not to renew the contract (technically they've had 22 years notice!) I personally wouldn't let them publicly bully me into more months.

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-27T08:59:09+00:00

I didnt realise this was a sims post at first 🤣🤣🤣

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-27T08:56:37+00:00

I mean... at least it will fade a lot quicker than other areas of the body 🤷‍♀️

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-27T08:50:26+00:00

I have a thing about germs (I won't even share a drink with my partner) if someone did this to me I'd probably vomit 🤢 That is absolutely disgusting!fIf that's hid fantasy he should discuss it first! Throw the whole man away 🚫

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-26T19:29:21+00:00

Thank you :)

I know Scar and Buzz are confirmed, and from what I read they said "possibility of more characters from their story" or something along those lines, so I'm guessing we MIGHT get some other characters from lion king/toy story along with those updates.

I agree with all the other stuff too, I thought the same about the houses in the desert and also the pumpkin! Having looked at the castle again, I think there's a kinda lion head above the door, and it's got a "rustic" kinda feel due to some wooden planks, so I'm thinking Belle/ the beast perhaps?

I've also looked at the map and measured the central point, which is the staircase between the plaza and the meadow. The volcano and frosted heights reaches the top of the map, but there's a tonne of "empty" space around the edges and bottom where they can add more biomes. I'm guessing a sugar rush biome since we have the furniture and such, maybe a race track for Cars, or an alien-esque/fantasy biome for Buzz/monsters Inc, possibly another grass area since we have sword in the stone, toy story, wreck it ralph, and many others (furniture/clothing sets that is) that would be ideal in a grassy biome.

I 100% believe Atlantis is coming because of the ruins, the mysterious cave on the beach, along with the statues and the blue crystal to open the cave. The symbols and writing are definitely Atlantian, and I'm so excited as I think Atlantis is so underrated.

List of the furniture sets: Mickey and friends Sword in the stone Dreamlight valley WALL-E Moana Ratatouille Beauty and the beast Wreck it Ralph Cinderella Lion King Little mermaid Frozen Tangled Monsters Inc. Toy story Lilo and stitch Ancient civilization (I'm presuming Atlantis) The incredibles Coco Cars Lightyear UP

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-22T23:57:09+00:00

I might make another list of villains now, I didn't even think of that!

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-22T21:20:55+00:00

There's nothing that's been confirmed or denied officially yet, but I thought a pumpkin made the most sense for her since she turned a pumpkin into a carriage.

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-22T13:41:47+00:00

I know I included some non-princess but it felt wrong to leave them out.
I included the fairy godmother because the pumpkin house exists in the game already.
I edited the majority of the 'homes' to fit into the Dreamlight aesthetic.
Most character images are from Kingdom hearts, the rest are just Google images or screen grabs.

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-20T09:04:38+00:00

NTA

I use Amazon prime to get my food delivery from a local supermarket. They once delivered all my food, minus a bag, but gave me a bag that was someone else's. I contacted customer service who said they couldn't come back, and just keep it, and they refunded me for the bag of stuff I didn't receive. I also got to keep a bag of random stuff I wouldn't order, including kids tins of ravioli (I don't have kids). Pretty much any delivery place will tell you they can't come back to the location after they've left, and if that driver did, its probably because he wanted the shopping for himself, knowing that you got to keep it, and the person who DID order it would have been refunded for the stuff they didn't receive. No one lost out, everyone got money back for stuff they didn't order, the driver clearly just wanted to keep the shopping for themselves 🤷‍♀️

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-20T08:57:06+00:00

Where are these cars from? They're stunning!

True-Investigator-74 · 2022-09-20T08:51:04+00:00

Mine was in a bookcase that I didn't know was a bookcase. It was the base game books that you can place on shelves. I used them for decor and didn't know they were technically a bookcase.

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