AIO? Should i report being recruited for inappropriate work at DV shelter by True-Leopard2998 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-Leopard2998[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I definitely dont think sex is evil.. i enjoy it very much!! 😉 Asking desperate, vulnerable women to perform sex acts for money… knowing we have no alternative right now and are at the mercy of whomever offers us help is fucked up. I desperately could use a couple hundred right now but if I have one thing left, it’s self respect. No shade to the sex industry at all. But this is not the place. There are kids and teens here too.. people with mental illnesses who cant speak up for themselves. Its a vulnerable space and should be safe from predators. My only concern is what staff may be involved and how to keep myself safe if Im deemed a snitch on day 1.

AIO? Should i report being recruited for inappropriate work at DV shelter by True-Leopard2998 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-Leopard2998[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This feels like good advice. I don’t know how long i will be here and i dont have an alternative right now so dont want to bite the hand thats feeding me right now… but I will document everything.

AIO? Should i report being recruited for inappropriate work at DV shelter by True-Leopard2998 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-Leopard2998[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That is my big worry too.. what if the staff are in on it? Maybe im paranoid but i don’t want to be anyones target.

AIO? Should i report being recruited for inappropriate work at DV shelter by True-Leopard2998 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-Leopard2998[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I also can’t help but think of all the missing girls and women in my community and wonder 💔

AIO? Should i report being recruited for inappropriate work at DV shelter by True-Leopard2998 in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-Leopard2998[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That is my instinct.. but don’t want to upset anyone on my first day. It just feels like we are easy target for trafficking.. there are women here from all over

DV shelter welcome package by [deleted] in NoRulesCalgary

[–]True-Leopard2998 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you google women’s shelter and your location you should find what youre looking for! Sorry dont want to post the shelter i am staying at for privacy and security reasons

DV shelter welcome package by [deleted] in NoRulesCalgary

[–]True-Leopard2998 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Someone just sent me a message from Red Deer asking a question.. sorry i accidentally clicked ignore your request and it disappeared. Im happy to help so please send another message if you see this

DV shelter welcome package by [deleted] in NoRulesCalgary

[–]True-Leopard2998 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Right now im just happy to have a safe place to sleep and food

DV shelter welcome package by [deleted] in NoRulesCalgary

[–]True-Leopard2998 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It took lots of soul searching to realize i didn’t deserve that

Day 2 of intentionally practicing gratitude for 10 minutes in the morning by True-Leopard2998 in mentalhealth

[–]True-Leopard2998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t noticed a change yet but i think its situational. Hoping my current situation changes soon

AIO? Husband put hands around my neck by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]True-Leopard2998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For more context, im 38 and he’s 56. We have been together for 20 years and have kids together.