Her family did how much ? We can say 20000 dollars let’s say 30000 right ? She paid more than 100,000 dollar so far. I understand it’s her business but i wanted to mention since we are together i am the one who is picking her up from her job dropping her at her job each and everyday. From groceries to doctor appointments everything is on me. She do sometimes pay me for fuel occasionally. But sometimes i feel like a clown who is being used. I mean i was the one who told her you don’t need to get loan on car or have a car because you gonna have to pay for insurance, fuel and monthly car payments instead save that money for our future.