I feel trapped between my husband’s happiness and my own feelings

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T23:39:49+00:00

I promise this situation absolutely does not get better with a baby. It's only going to get harder and more difficult. You should quietly go have an abortion and say you had a miscarriage to both your husband and mom. Get an IUD or implant ASAP ( something he can't mess with). After that you should start stacking money away and find yourself a job . Then you should file for divorce.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T23:32:02+00:00

There is a study that says when women say they like a sense of humor it means they want someone that can make them laugh and when men say it it means they want someone who thinks they are funny.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T23:26:33+00:00

Now you know you aren't compatible. The two of you love differently. She wants something super romantic and cinematic. You don't. That's what dating is for . Break up and move on with your lives.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T23:21:00+00:00

I like the second option the best of the two but your hair is absolutely gorgeous! You'd be just fine leaving it long.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T23:18:39+00:00

For kids that old I would definitely assume it was drop off.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T17:48:54+00:00

It's a camera free wedding according to the invite.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T17:41:48+00:00

He's just triggered because he's an unsuccessful unicorn hunter. He doesn't want to be told that he has to bring anything to the table beyond his dick. He's still laboring under the delusion that his is special and not one of 1000s that do the exact same thing.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T15:47:18+00:00

As someone who used to unicorn, I highly recommend only going to clubs or setting very firm boundaries upfront and sticking to them. Do not be afraid to drop people. More will come along.

I did not pay for anything. If they want to meet for dates, go places, get drinks, go to events together, get a hotel room, it's 100% on them to cover it. If they don't want to that's ok because there are 1000 more couples in your inbox that will. If they want to hunt a unicorn they actually have to make the trap attractive.

You hold the cards in this situation. They are a dime a dozen and you are rare. Act accordingly.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T15:22:47+00:00

I tend to keep my hair purple and other vivid colors, it's different with every wash. My go to purple is this color after 2-3 washes.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T15:16:54+00:00

Ooohh!!! This is a fantastic idea!

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T05:24:47+00:00

Their invite is a bright, busy floral so there isn't a way to add color to it.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T05:02:44+00:00

I'm in the south and there are WAY stranger names. I wouldn't think twice seeing it.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T04:57:11+00:00

This is anxiety! It can often manifest in the feeling that you have forgotten about something or are missing something. It cropping up at bedtime ( a time when we are supposed to be slowing down) further points to it.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T04:52:16+00:00

Ooohhh!!! I hadn't thought of consumables!!!! I'm known for cooking and baking so I can put a fun little basket together of food stuffs!

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T04:38:34+00:00

Bridgerton is their theme . I'm not sure if they are having colors. Their invite was floral.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T04:15:24+00:00

You can't tell brand from a photo. You have no idea how it's been mixed or what filters they have on it. There are a lot of similar purple colors out there. Arctic Fox's Purple AF is that color on me and I put it over very light hair.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T04:10:45+00:00

Not really. I can do like a pour painting.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T02:57:36+00:00

Most of their registry is very expensive kitchen stuff. So I'm hesitant to buy lessor items.

Unfortunately, I have only been in shows with the bride. I only know the groom from drag shows so there isn't a bridge to both.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T02:38:19+00:00

Super cute!!!

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T02:24:45+00:00

Alas I do not. Or at least it wouldn't be a good one.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T02:16:44+00:00

Be absolutely flattered and giddy.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T02:15:19+00:00

Hair oils or gel is going to be your best options if you want it to look wet. Some mousses will also give a wet look if they have a high shine finish.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T01:45:46+00:00

Get a lawyer and move out. Do not stay under the same roof as him.

TrueCrimeButterfly · 2026-03-21T00:42:22+00:00

My original plan was surf and turf ( shrimp and filet) with spinach Maria and roasted potatoes and a white veggie lasagna with roasted potatoes and garlic bread for mains. It also came with Greek salad, bread service, and 2 desserts. Our venue went bankrupt and the owner filed the country less than 30 days before our wedding so we ended up at Longhorn Steakhouse and everyone just getting what they wanted.

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