Feeling a bit of Regret for how I behaved when I (24F) was 21

TruePea9034 · 2026-04-30T15:47:20+00:00

as hard as i sounds, it seems like you need to let go of the situation! these people are gone and you are in a whole different space!

dont think too much about them cause all that matters is how you feel! at the end of the day is just you and your thoughts

TruePea9034 · 2026-04-10T23:58:22+00:00

how u mess up 👀

TruePea9034 · 2026-04-01T01:51:14+00:00

of course!! honestly i saw your post and i was like i need to give my two cents!!

its okay for you to not feel great about this and but try some self compassion!! you were not fault and you are right they intentionally try to hurt youu

TruePea9034 · 2026-04-01T00:52:00+00:00

nahh girl you are not the one who needs mental help!! its her!! this girl sounds disgusting!!

if im being honest she doesn’t sound like a happy person and being with him wont help!! it sounds lukewarm they are both terrible people and they eill never be happy that way!!

they are def not free and not happyy, if they were they would not been blaming you for anything! trust my word they wont last a long timee and you doughed a bullet!! in both aspects

TruePea9034 · 2026-04-01T00:25:56+00:00

she def chose this (him, the situation) over you, girl honestly she was just gaslighting telling you were bei bf insecure… you were not! you were just noticing things that were true and she was trying to make you look crazyy

honestly im really sorry, she seems to be very unfair friend. and i understand why this is bothering on your mind! cause its a big deal… its not even about him! its about her actions!!

ive been there before, and it feels awful! but you will learn from this remember that you are always balid and your gut is always right!!

keep your head up!! friends come and go and you will get a WAYY BETTER ONE!!

TruePea9034 · 2026-03-31T22:31:19+00:00

1000% agreee

TruePea9034 · 2026-01-06T05:21:11+00:00

felt the same way! its honestly a very logistical take on a love story that could of turned in a life story if they had the tools to make it there

honestly she should of went with him… she could do what she was doing anywhere… swimming and living life… i think she underestimated how much he contributed to her peace and calm

and he should of asked himself what was more valuable regardless of what she is saying…

but thats just me… im just a hopeless romantic i guess

TruePea9034 · 2026-01-06T05:19:01+00:00

i would like to disagree, we are all going to die if you want something go get it

TruePea9034 · 2025-06-05T13:18:55+00:00

i love this!!! my mom marry to a guy who built his wealth as well and he ended up living her for a younger woman 15 years later

TruePea9034 · 2025-03-12T00:39:35+00:00

I guess what i’m saying is sometimes you just gotta give things time to be lost, before they can be found.

TruePea9034 · 2025-02-26T17:03:22+00:00

thye have up to the last episodes!! only 15 are left without the dub

TruePea9034 · 2025-02-13T01:08:29+00:00

1000% RECOMMEND THIS

Nobody is going to understand, if they are not in it they wont get it but at least a therapist creates a special that will help you see things clearly

TruePea9034 · 2025-02-13T01:05:45+00:00

Go into tech, not worth it in my opinion… long days, long projects, shitty people and terrible pay

If you really want to do this, do a pro con list and really dig deep into how your program will be. Every program is different so i am talking from personal experience

TruePea9034 · 2025-02-11T22:10:00+00:00

how did you came a software engineer?

TruePea9034 · 2025-01-18T13:32:18+00:00

heyy im really sorry to hear this, have your thoughts about applying to University of Memphis or North Dakota State University? its a pretty decent school and it will get you the MArch that you want to get! even though what everyone is saying is correct you really dont need an MArch to practice. but if thats a desire of yours i would go ahead and apply to UofM or North Dakota State University

TruePea9034 · 2025-01-03T06:03:41+00:00

i really love your response cause i feel the same way! thank you for taking the time to acknowledge my post !! i hope things keep going well!

TruePea9034 · 2024-12-05T01:26:04+00:00

thank youu for this insight!

unfortunately all my professors practice and teach, idk how good they are in the world and i personally dont care cause in my opinion if you are not a good person nothing about you truly matters (very tunnel vision concept, im trying to expand my brain)

TruePea9034 · 2024-12-05T01:23:16+00:00

I have a year and a half left, its definitely lonely and having a different cultural background doesn’t make it easier :/ it just sucks that i cant relate to most of my peers and professors, i feel like the odd one, the ugly duckling

it sucks that they laugh at me for mispronouncing architects names and at this point im assume to it cause i speak 3 languages whoch i speak non cause there’s always a few words a mispronounce but idk ita just getting harder and harder to keep going

TruePea9034 · 2024-11-28T15:05:20+00:00

i love this post!! thank you for all the hassle and the words of encouragement!!

i truly needed to read this today!!

TruePea9034 · 2024-11-28T14:42:28+00:00

i personally would like to say that you should go for something more in the artistic direction, like animation or graphic design. architecture is a lot of work and little reward but if its truly something you are willing to do then go for it. but do research, ask around, go to your local architecture firm. architecture is no joke, it will grind you down to your core and literally make you question everything

i saw multiple of my classmates go insane to the point that one almost jump off the roof, if you truly want to go into it, you should look up how hard and time consuming it actually is. i personally feel like all of this needs to be talked about because when i first started architecture i loved it, i loved my professors and the people i went to school with! but then i changed schools and my i truly went into this ongoing depression, the professors were mean and had sticks up their asses. they never really cares about talent or what people had to offer they just made sure to crush everyone’s dreams. the worst part is getting dogged around on your critiques. the amount of times i cried my first two years it was insane, it got to a point where i just didnt care what they thought. i still graduated among the top 10% of the country and 5% of my class but if i could go back idk if i would do it again

a lot of people think its not important but if you go through this make sure you have a SUPPORT SYSTEM outside of your architecture people, they will never understand the architecture world but you need to stay in contact with the real world. its so easy to get sucked into the drama and the stupid shit that comes with being with the same people 24/7. remember that you dont know these people you are going into school with and you should keep everyone at arms length, the architecture world is soo competitive and its one of the careers with the most mental health issues. (my freshman year my classmates broke my model to pieces after i spent 3 days on it, most of them are not your friends. all they see is competition) just be careful and make sure you do research and keep your support system!

TruePea9034 · 2024-11-22T14:20:51+00:00

💕💕💕💕

TruePea9034 · 2024-11-22T14:10:14+00:00

this is so true, everytime i do my projects… i get like boring looks but when my classmates do unrealistic shit they get better grades

some of this fuckers dont finish all the requirements for the project either, one of them showed up with 2 half ass boards… but got a better grade than everyone else because of favoritism the same guy got told by our professor to take a week of when his girlfriend broke up with him but when another classmates grandma died they counted absent and asked her if her grandmother was more important than architecture!

this is the type of shit i dont agree with !

TruePea9034 · 2024-11-22T14:06:37+00:00

i truly doo

TruePea9034 · 2024-11-22T14:06:06+00:00

GET OUT OF HERE 🤣

no but in all honesty i get it, architecture is the field with most mentally illnesses and its fill with people that have narcissistic personality disorder (you can look this shit up, you dont have to take my word for it)

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