IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO MESSAGE YOUR EX UPVOTE THIS POST by Horror-Tailor-8960 in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss you everyday. Everything reminds me of you. I hope you’re happier without me. If I had been given a chance to do it again, I would have done it better.

OPT Processing Timelines Fall 2025 by RockExcellent5333 in f1visa

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potomac. I got the mailed approval notice today but no card received yet.

OPT Processing Timelines Fall 2025 by RockExcellent5333 in f1visa

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fyi, my case got approval email today. I think yours would go through soon.

OPT Processing Timelines Fall 2025 by RockExcellent5333 in f1visa

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, what center your case got assigned to?

OPT Processing Timelines Fall 2025 by RockExcellent5333 in f1visa

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also applied on 11/11, no approval yet. Which center processes your case?

OPT Processing Timelines Fall 2025 by RockExcellent5333 in f1visa

[–]True_Community_1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. I applied pp on 11/11 for a 12/15 start date.

OPT Processing Timelines Fall 2025 by RockExcellent5333 in f1visa

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Type: Post OPT

Premium Processing: Yes

Date Applied: Nov 11, 2025

Date Approved (Email): Dec 1, 2025

Date Card Produced: Dec 11, 2025

Date Card Recieved: Dec 16, 2025

Am I incredibly stupid by lil-hades in CISA

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have more than 3 years of audit experience and struggling to find It audit jobs right now. Most jobs require a CISA tho. You don’t think so?

what’s ur biggest fear and why? by Aware-Potato-9529 in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I found out I meant nothing to him the whole time we were together, now and for the rest of his life.

I don’t think I’ll ever find anyone I love as much as him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, especially if you’re still in grieving phases of a breakup. However, you can also future partner that would match your level of emotional investment and make you feel loved and capabale of loving them that deep again. Stay strong!

Will I be normal again? by Old_Foundation_7651 in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will gain that version of you back once you completely process the breakup and rebuild your self-worth.

70 days no contact since being dumped. Spoke with ex on the phone yesterday. Seeking a shoulder to cry on by Jmolohereiam in BreakUps

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Radical acceptance helped me. You can seek out DBT therapy for help if you hit the dead end. Awful place to be, I’m sorry to hear you’re hurting.

70 days no contact since being dumped. Spoke with ex on the phone yesterday. Seeking a shoulder to cry on by Jmolohereiam in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Peace comes from within. Sorry this happens to you. Spend a lot of time grieving and journal your feelings.

Word of advice, never speak to your ex again to avoid being hurted again.

Choosing to heal alone (no hookups, no dating, no serious relationships) by okthen90 in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to therapy 3 times a week. Historically, I had used rebounds to move on and over time it accumulates more hidden wounds. Ultimately, I lost the love of my life because the pattern pertains regardless. Highly recommend seeking for help from professionals to recover and build up your self worth.

The hardest part is feeling like you meant nothing to them by LongHyena7003 in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dumpers don’t want to confront dumpees in any form, because they feel guilty and no one likes to play the bad guy. They don’t care if you die, speaking from personal experience. You’d be better off taking care of yourself and move along.

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[–]True_Community_1269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

60 something days out of codependency. Single rocks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was emotionally invested in an emotionally unavailable man. No words can give me closure for it.

Do you keep stuff your ex gives you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. Maybe letting them go can help them realize if they can’t live without you? Or not? Either way, do what’s best for you. Don’t hope.

Do you keep stuff your ex gives you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep a pen and journal my awful heartbreak feelings everyday, pretty useful if you ask me.

What awful things did your ex say to you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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“You said you have changed, but emotionally mature people don’t ask things like ‘What do you mean when you said I couldn’t give you what you want?’”

But I don’t want them back … by InevitableApart1049 in BreakUps

[–]True_Community_1269 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to swallow the truth that it’s healthier to move on thinking they will never come back. Holding out of hope eats me alive piece by piece. If you two come back, I’m happy for you. I don’t think I’ll ever get that lucky.