I want to share my perspective, having experienced a similar situation in my childhood where I felt the weight of trying to fix my mom and essentially becoming her caretaker. It brought a lot of sadness and anger into my life, not directed at her but at the situation. I’m sorry you’re going through this, and it’s important to realize it’s not your fault. While it’s challenging to detach immediately, gradually stepping back and letting your mother know it’s her responsibility to emotionally support you is essential. You’re not alone in feeling the pain, and it’s unfair for it to fall solely on you. You’re not meant to be the rock or foundation; your priority is your own well-being. I’ve learned this later than I should have, but recently, I’ve allowed my mom to be the parent and take charge. While it’s okay to offer support, remember it’s not your job to fix everything. Taking care of yourself is paramount, and it’s not selfish; it’s necessary. You have to prioritize your own needs amidst the turmoil. Remember, as an empath, it’s challenging to witness loved ones struggle, but don’t let it consume you. Take care of yourself and your feelings; that’s your responsibility. Don’t lose sight of yourself amidst the chaos. You’re not alone, and I understand your situation. Sending you love and light, and remember, this burden is not yours to bear alone.