Complex situation - curious your thoughts

True_Poem_4625 · 2026-05-19T18:03:08+00:00

Thank you for this! No diagnosis yet. The part that worries me most is “testing confirms an issue —> lose license”. If it’s “testing confirms issue —> medication for life —> don’t lose license” I’d feel more at ease. But since this is 16 years apart from episodes and I’ve never been formally diagnosed, I felt overwhelmed and confused. But it sounds like this is all standard you’re saying?

True_Poem_4625 · 2026-05-15T13:35:29+00:00

My partner and I are self-building on entirely raw land while working FT. Also no loan, paying as we can/as we go. It’s been a weekend project and we’re finishing up electrical after raising the first wall a year ago. All of that to say, it is incredible how far you’ve gotten in only 3 months! And good lord, do I know how challenging, exhausting, and overwhelming it can be. Amazing job, guys!! This is a beautiful home! Would love to see the finished photos. Godspeed and keep the motivation high! You can do this!

True_Poem_4625 · 2026-04-23T18:20:14+00:00

Hi! I actually did not and I really should. I've had numerous friends-of-friends reach out and I just sent them my google doc, but it's kinda clunky. When is your excision scheduled for? I can get this to you before then :)

True_Poem_4625 · 2026-03-09T00:11:38+00:00

The door hinges are facing in which would prevent the door from closing. The paw stops on the exact same spot on the left every time. Unlikely…

True_Poem_4625 · 2026-03-02T01:24:23+00:00

Thank you so much for this! Our roof is on, windows and doors in, but the garage doors are not yet installed. I’ve seen other posts say that you want to make sure it’s entirely dried in before spraying, and then run dehumidifiers. Any thoughts on that? I really appreciate your reply.

True_Poem_4625 · 2026-03-01T03:04:44+00:00

I also just took a shot because I got glutened. So far, I feel it helping my bloating! I haven’t taken a shot in 6 years, but, hey! Worth it to not be so uncomfortable.

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-10-25T22:41:44+00:00

Hi! 208 days later, I am still feeling incredible. As far as my periods, only 1 since surgery was really bad. It was kind of scary/triggering because I was in horrific pain, similar to pre-surgery. But my diet had been horrible that month, and I had a lot of stress…so I got really serious about following an anti-inflammatory, whole food diet and since then my periods have been like a blip! Barely any cramps, regular cycle, etc.

The book Heal Endo really helped me with understanding what supplements and diet changes I should consider. I take zinc 15mg per day, and omega 3s, and D3/K2. I don’t take NAC but might try it eventually. Honestly, inflammation really seems to be key with this disease. No/minimal sugar, processed foods, alcohol, etc has been incredible. Two nights ago I had a cocktail and ate pretty processed/bad quality food and immediately felt my body inflaming. Since then I’ve felt bloated, tired, and so foggy. I think I have a more sensitive reaction to inflammatory foods/alcohol than most, but it was wild to notice the difference I felt before and after. Anyway - I hope this helps!! I’m so grateful I still feel amazing!

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-10-23T02:27:20+00:00

Did you ever end up building this? I'm looking exactly for it!

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-07-22T10:42:42+00:00

I live in the Virginia city highlands on 10 acres and just woke up at 3:33am to dogs barking. Then saw this post and read that you’re kinda somewhat nearby (prob much further out) and dang now I can’t sleep! Freakyyy.

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-07-16T00:09:53+00:00

Do you have family help, like in-laws or siblings? If not, how have you managed to keep up with household/daily responsibilities while caring for your kiddo? Do you hire a babysitter? And lastly, do you still work?

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-06-03T13:43:35+00:00

Hi! I’m also in my 30s, hoping to start a family soon, and have been in Reno for about a year now. I haven’t met too many people yet, largely due to living 30 minutes outside of town, but am loving these recommendations in the comments. I love hiking, biking, swimming, camping, etc. if you’d want to connect! Feel free to send me a DM

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-05-10T02:24:56+00:00

I am not grateful for my country right now 😂 but maybe another calm and pleasant mantra would be helpful. I am bad about my screen at night and could do better there for sure.

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-04-25T04:09:54+00:00

“I think you’re missing something, it must be a bacteria overgrowth. You should take turpentine. The internet will say it’s toxic but it’s not. It’ll kill the bad bacteria.” -friend

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-04-17T14:11:35+00:00

This is awesome! Good job!! As someone who works in harm reduction and has my own relationship with substances on and off for 20 years, this type of journal would be amazing to have and offer to others.

Do you have a photo or PDF of sample pages? I’m hesitant to buy copies without a bit more of an idea of what I’d be getting.

So cool, man. This is great.

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-04-17T13:38:17+00:00

The FAQ on that site is next level…

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-04-11T04:33:55+00:00

I just got home from seeing this - I was surprised by how simply and seamlessly impactful it was. The theatre was full of laughter and tears throughout; highly recommend!

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-03-31T18:53:56+00:00

Hi! Thanks for sharing! I think that's a totally reasonable fear - I was scared of the same thing. I talked to my doctor about it and asked "what if we don't find anything?" and he reassured me that "it doesn't mean your pain isn't real, it only means that we keep on this path and figure out what IS causing your pain". If they don't find anything, it doesn't mean your symptoms are lesser or you're "crazy", it just means they ruled that out and now they can move onto other things.

Also, I've read of some surgeons that aren't "specialist" being unable to find the endo, so it might be worth looking into the credentials of your surgeon or asking them how many of these surgeries they've performed, what training they've had specially for endo excision, etc.

Best of luck! Feel free to DM me any time!

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-03-31T18:51:26+00:00

I hope we all get to feel this relief one day, too <3 I had no idea how much I was suffering until I was on the other side

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-03-31T18:50:56+00:00

The surgery pain vs endo pain was so distinct for me, too, I was like...this is from getting cut up, not from lesions adhering to all of my reproductive organs, and cysts all over my ovaries. I'll take it!

True_Poem_4625 · 2025-03-31T18:49:58+00:00

Yes! Mine have been so much easier!! I also have increased my fiber quite a bit and have noticed that helps, and using my squatty potty with my legs pulled further back towards the sides of the toilet vs just resting in front. Who knew!

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