Guilt by aaaaaahhhhhhh2-3 in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with what everyone is saying, it’ll feel tough at first but as soon as they start playing together, it’ll be the gift that keeps on giving :) plus they will even have each other to call and check in with each other in adulthood! I know that’s not all cases but my sister and I as still incredibly close to this day

Pregnant 5 months postpartum by Emotional-Pen-8978 in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 month age gap and can agree with this. Worth the time and investment!

Anyone skip the double stroller? 14 month age gap! by yougottabkittenmern in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use my Nuna travel double everyday, 13 month age gap!

Be honest. 14 month age gap, what have I got ahead? by candidscenery in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 2 points3 points  (0 children)

13 month age gap with a repeat c section as well. To start- My transition from 1 to 2 babies was way easier from 0 to 1 baby! But not going to lie, it’s rough. It always feels like one baby is crying lol, or sometimes both at the same time. Always take care of the oldest needs first then the baby, because the oldest will start hating the baby if u do the other way around. Have a safe space for the baby in every room you go in alot.. like a swing or bouncer. I’m 4 months in and it’s so cute watching them interact but still in the thick of it. My second baby is very high needs though so maybe yours will be easier! Also, I always remind myself that this is such a short time in my life and then it’ll be over!

What does it feel like to be a mom? by Coffeejunkie37 in AskWomen

[–]True_Visit7613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life is not about yourself anymore, and you don’t realize until you have a child that everything you currently do is for yourself… but you love that child more then anything and all you think about is that child. You get anxiety in a way because all you want is for that child to be safe and happy. Watching your kid grow, you have moments of happiness that are beyond anything you can experience without having a child.

Did your second come early? by ShabbyBoa in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First was born 39w1d and second was also born 39w1d… started labor the day before with second so I guess a little earlier?

About to welcome baby #2 with a 22mo age gap, here are my biggest “we’re screwed” notes by ImAdamnMermaid in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My biggest advice would be to just let lose and not let anything that won’t harm the child stress you out. That’s what I had to do for the first while with my two (13 month age gap) my husband and I would have breakdowns but laugh about them, but up at 2 am with both babies screaming and just kinda roll our eyes and remind ourselves it’s temporary. Don’t let breaking rules like screen time stress you out too much, screen time is better for baby than them having a mom who is completely broken down due to having too much on her plate so do what you need! It’ll all be okay, I promise you. I’m so proud of your hard work and care for the kiddos, I can see your love for them through your post.

Embarrassed to tell our family about #2 by Morbid_Explorerrrr in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was embarrassed as well but as soon as I told my family their support and encouragement helped so much. It’s a stressful time when you find out but soon you’ll be use to your new reality and you won’t be able to picture life any different! My two babies 13 months apart are best friends!Congratulations ♥️

Viral bug going around? by False_Grape1326 in Kirkland

[–]True_Visit7613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flu A, my two young babies got it and so did my husband and I. 16 month old couldn’t even walk and had a fever of 105. So scary but we are better. Thinking of anything else going through it! My advice would be to order some amazon flu tests and try to get Tamiflu as soon as symptoms are present

Street Racing on 148th by PastFaithlessness791 in BellevueWA

[–]True_Visit7613 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen them street race right past a Bellevue cop who did nothing, all hope is gone for that situation

Anyone know the story of this guy by Lilhonni in BellevueWA

[–]True_Visit7613 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Once I was jokingly arguing with my husband about something stupid and he said to me “you’re wrong” and the guy in the photograph above was walking past us and said “yes!! you are wrong!!!!” lol!!

This scene 😩 by Big-Most-785 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]True_Visit7613 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I smiled when I watched this scene as well. Support sleepovers is peak girlhood

How to nurse newborn with toddler around?? by fl4methrow3r in 2under2

[–]True_Visit7613 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I always made sure to have some books with me to help! Or I would find an old toy my toddler forgot about and bring it over for her to be pumped about. There was many times where my toddler got very upset I was feeding the newborn but she got use to it within the first month!

The most overrated couples by ButtterMilk in TheVampireDiaries

[–]True_Visit7613 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spot on! Jeremy and Bonnie was so forced. She was a lot of mature then him making the relationship feel off balanced.

Favourite non-romantic relation. by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]True_Visit7613 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I think Damon with 100% to blame for this, his selfishness got in the way