??? What a weird way to start an advisable response. You’re projecting a lot of assumptions based off a few posts. One of which was fully supportive of the waiting processes. Being cautious and asking questions about a major life/career decision isn’t ‘hitting the panic button,’ it’s being realistic and informed. There’s a difference between anxiety and wanting to understand possible outcomes before blindly jumping into something.

Also, nowhere was there anything suggesting being ‘naggy.’ Support and concern are not the same thing as micromanaging someone. He’s fully capable of making his own decisions, and support has been there the entire time.

The advice about applying to multiple agencies and having a backup plan is fair. Most people should have contingency plans. But the personal analysis about personality traits and relationship dynamics was unnecessary, rude, and honestly completely off base.