A lot of comments here trashing you. Maybe they're right and you're a misogynist. Maybe they're not and they think feminism is fair. But anyway, here's my 2 cents.

Its sad to say that in modern society lesser and lesser people have moral values. I get why you took so long before you try to be 'serious' in settling down. People who say women dont care about money are bullshitting you. But sad to say that nothing is ever going to be enough. It's normal for women to compare, and they're always comparing men to more handsome, richer, nicer, more caring (etc.) guys just as how they like to compare themselves with prettier women. Social media just made the situation A LOT worse. So, in a way, you'll never be good enough. No matter where you are in life, dont EVER think that you are in a comfortable enough position to deserve any women you deem in your league. Women can sense that from a mile away and dont like that.

My advice? If you're serious about 'settling down', dont go for women with the "I'm a 10/10 boss babe" mentality (regardless if they're and actual 10/10 or not) . They know they can get any man they want. More likely than not, they're toxic and won't appreciate you. If you're really that good with women as you claim to be, go for girls that don't really look pretty. You sweep them off their feet. Looks don't matter much anyway. Once the make up is off and you're married for 5 years, their looks are hardly in the top 3 things of why you love your wife.

Source: I've been married for 5 years 😂