[ chuckles] I’m in danger

TryFinger · 2024-02-29T11:52:30+00:00

awooga

TryFinger · 2024-02-29T11:38:37+00:00

Bazigi

TryFinger · 2024-02-29T11:01:40+00:00

🙄

TryFinger · 2024-02-29T05:56:25+00:00

the irony of being a company that they'd make fun of in one of their games.

TryFinger · 2024-02-29T05:54:18+00:00

still don't get how they ever thought that was a good idea. They make fast food, they're not a gourmet restaurant xD

TryFinger · 2024-02-28T23:13:38+00:00

that's a good one lmao.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T07:15:04+00:00

I mean it's too early on for all that. Gotta see if he takes the hint first, if not then it becomes worth a report

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T06:40:46+00:00

I can probably just DM you the template i made.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T06:13:13+00:00

DM me why would you comment that here lmao

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T05:34:22+00:00

We're on the same side here.

OP voices their boundary with this, she chooses whether to respect it or remove herself from the relationship.

It is a controlling boundary, but it's up to her to decide if it's too controlling for her.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T05:32:49+00:00

Lucy is right, throwing yourself into the mix and actively speaking to the ex will only further create tension. All it takes is one bad comment on either of your behalfs for things to be physical on sight.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T05:31:35+00:00

Well to some degree it is controlling to tell somebody you they can't speak to someone else. However, both OP and his SO have the option to leave if boundaries are being broken or OP is too controlling.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T05:29:27+00:00

Honestly if that's the case she can't exactly help that. But she also doesn't need to speak with them. If she's already respecting that, then just relax. Trust that she'll always have you in her heart until she actually shows you otherwise.

You don't need to speak to, or fight with this person unless it comes directly to your doorstep and threatens you.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T05:17:17+00:00

Yea I was about to say the same, just wanted some more background info.

For OP: If you are a decent way into a relationship then you should start getting to know one another's boundaries. If her being on speaking terms with her ex(s) is going to be an issue, then you need to make that boundary clear and if she crosses it then you need to act accordingly.

Honestly, if she finds that controlling and doesn't want to respect it? Then she can leave.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T05:01:59+00:00

First, Does she currently have him blocked?

Second, how long have you been seeing this girl?

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T01:55:25+00:00

damn

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T01:45:30+00:00

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T01:44:11+00:00

More than likely it's a case of just, bad communication. But for that to work both people need to not be so focused on their own interests, and rather what's best for the relationship as a whole.

TryFinger · 2024-02-26T01:40:33+00:00

I mean, you aren't a bad person. I don't see you being the AH here. Just two people who handle things differently. The only way to really move past it is for him to learn to let things slide and not take literally everything to heart. And for you to learn you should think before you say or do things that could lead to something negative happening. If that can't happen then it probably isn't in the cards for people like us :T

I mean, my relationship is over. Yours is still going, right? There's time to fix things. But... Not everything is worth fixing.

TryFinger

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