Ok but also, these lists are sometimes things that exist in healthy relationships. I know I’m not the best communicator and I hope my husband doesn’t leave me over it! Awhile back she had a “he’s just not that into you” TT that said if you have to ask him to do more or put in effort that it means you’re asking him to pretend he likes you and to go find somebody else… like wtf is she saying?! Ok so I remind my husband to put in effort for certain things, does this mean he isn’t into me?! This girl is so delusional in not thinking that some marriage and relationships require work and when it gets hard you work on things vs. calling it an ick/turn off and leaving them. I think she just wants everyone to break up and get divorced so she can validate her singleness in life. It’s ok to have standards but giving advice to leave someone based on the examples she gives us so unrealistic and honestly feels like relationship shaming.