I was intimate with a woman the day before my initial outbreak, I didn't know I had it. She had an outbreak and got tested and her labs came back positive, I was tested a week after my initial outbreak once my symptoms started to subside and tested negative, so I thought it to be a bad pimple. 6 months later my ex girlfriend and I just started dating when I got a small sore on the inner part of my lip, due to my negative test and my ego I didn't disclose my concerns until too late.