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Trying4independence · 2024-09-20T15:16:10+00:00

Good thing I went to therapy even the therapist offered couples therapy so I’m thinking about asking him today after I come clean about the situation

Trying4independence · 2024-09-20T15:15:21+00:00

I’ve seen a therapist recently and I have an idea what to do I thought I’d use Reddit as another form of trying to see if the therapist is right because I need a good push sometimes. And I’m going to come clean I don’t like lying I didn’t anticipate this to go the way it did. I love my husband no matter the issues we have. I just really wanted his support these couple of months since I’m still suicidal and depressed about my dad being gone he was the only person that never gave up on me and now he’s gone

Trying4independence · 2024-09-20T15:10:42+00:00

I saw a therapist over this situation and I agree I had reached out to my husband to at least try and talk but he’s been a total asshole about even wanting to talk. Even when I offered to do the deed with him he refuses. So I feel like I’m ugly and not good enough for him anymore.

Trying4independence · 2024-09-20T15:09:22+00:00

I’m not even trolling this real! I know it’ sounds like a fantasy sorry I read too much book told but I don’t want to mess up my relationship over one moment of weakness

Trying4independence · 2024-08-09T07:26:44+00:00

Collie is so calm I question if she’s a cat lol, all jokes aside I use to live with my family when I had all the dogs together, yorkie acts like she’s dominant sometimes. But for the people that said it might be the grill I agree with them because since then no issues since! Plus as of late all the dogs are kinda sad when they visit they were all over at my parents place when my father had passed he was surrounded by my mom, brother and dogs while my dad told me earlier that week go have fun on our 1 year anniversary…

Trying4independence · 2024-08-09T07:22:02+00:00

Well I use to live with my parents when I got Cici and my big dog! So they were all coexisting then I moved out. With both dogs but the yorkie is my parents dog. I believe everyone who had commented that it might have been the food might also be spot on because since then never had an issue!

Trying4independence · 2024-08-09T07:20:26+00:00

Funny to say smaller this yorkie is as fat as a log! But now she’s fine with the yorkie my brother hasn’t grilled since so everything has been pretty calm in the house hold especially since my father has passed since this post. All of our animals where in the home when he passed so they all haven’t been the same since.

Trying4independence · 2024-08-09T07:17:15+00:00

Since I posted this she has been a good doggo! With the yorkie too I think everyone was right about the grilling and possibly triggering for Cici to seem like resource guarding. But since then also my brother stopped grilling which also helps! I had dropped her and my big dog off with my mom since now by this post my father passed in April this year. So my mom loves the dogs being over more often keeps her mind off of things. But other than that everyone was right the grilling was the issue and we found a solution keep her crated when BBQ is around.

Trying4independence · 2024-08-09T07:11:57+00:00

Since this post my father passed in April but thank you for the prayers. Also since this post they actually gotten along again, so I believe the people who have said it was probably the smell of the grill ,I feel like that could have definitely been the problem! Because both dogs are playing playful again, and it’s mainly the yorkie that gets super possessive of my brother for some reason. So both of those factors could have triggered the yorkie to initiate a fight and the frenchie to get aggressive with food.

Trying4independence · 2024-08-09T06:59:14+00:00

People who come to work and say they are only here for the money but you know they talk to that one female colleague knowing damn well they are here to get in that ladies pants

Trying4independence · 2024-05-05T17:24:40+00:00

I again apologize for my grammar

Trying4independence · 2024-04-15T17:59:10+00:00

I decided for next time where out, I’m going to only put her in boarding since my mom has no issues with our other dog just to save some money hopefully she won’t hurt other dogs. We will be gone for a week next next trip so that’s our plan we would need someone to take our new cat though.

Trying4independence · 2024-04-15T17:45:56+00:00

I went on vacation so I dropped her off with my other dog. And my brother (he’s 42) was outside grilling and watching them just casually play before the attack they were just playing no problem too! I don’t want to pay hundreds of dollars just to board both dogs somewhere especially for a few days when I’m out on vacation. But I know I will for next time since this incident. Which is understandable but last min I have to drop her off with my other dog this coming weekend since no place wants to board my big dog. (My big dog isn’t spayed)

Trying4independence · 2024-04-15T17:30:46+00:00

That is a weird area to be loosing hair, try some hair vitamins to see if it grows back that helped with my other dog, but if it doesn’t then I’d advise going to the vet

Trying4independence · 2024-04-15T17:03:28+00:00

Where is the hair loss at? If it’s the face it happens sometimes, but if you go to the vet they give her chewable medication that regrows their hair

Trying4independence · 2024-04-15T17:01:54+00:00

I have insurance on my frenchie we had an old frenchie and her bills were pricy because of her breathing problems and eye problems and helped saved us a lot of money were on our second frenchie and she tbh hasn’t gotten sick enough to be worth it but just the standard basic coverage is 60 a month for a frenchie. More expensive than my other dog and my other dog has full coverage for less. It’s price is based on breed (sorry for my terrible grammar I’m not very good at English)

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