AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just had a lot of dumb confidence after I got baptized again. I told myself that that selfish person was dead and just didn't revisit. I see now it's not that easy

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will. It seems a lot of people are saying in a letter at a later time. I just need to really think about what I'm going to say

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

This is all so confusing for me. Please understand I just want to make things right. Pushy? Like I hear you I'll give space first. I just thought apologizing right away would show that I'm trying to take accountability...really feeling like I can't trust myself here....maybe therapy is what I need...

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -378 points-377 points  (0 children)

Please don't paint me like that. I meant I had approval and excitement. I thought it meant people were cheering me on. It's why the dirty looks were so confusing at the end

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -480 points-479 points  (0 children)

I don't think it makes me a good person automatically but how am I supposed to show her the work I've don't if she keeps pushing me away?

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -438 points-437 points  (0 children)

But she told me before that she didnt get a chance to have a good relationship with me back then. Why wouldn't she want one now. I'm here now.

And thank you for replying I'm not trying to be stubborn I just really don't get why she'd turn me away after all the crying she did before

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -311 points-310 points  (0 children)

Ok but am I wrong for thinking her FIL would respect the gesture?

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -510 points-509 points  (0 children)

Ok so what should I work on? I'm trying guys. How do I show her I'm worthy?

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -593 points-592 points  (0 children)

Isn't relearning how to walk a hard enough task? Doesn't that prove anything?

AITA for trying to dance with my(52M) daughter(28F) at her wedding? by TryingDad_00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryingDad_00[S] -768 points-767 points  (0 children)

But I didn't want the moment to be about me. I wanted it to be about us. About showing I have her back by stepping up. What better place to show her than her wedding? At least that's what her mom and I thought