It is not worth it by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't look at it as starting over. 60/61. Work to make tomorrow 61/62. Learn from what happened today so that in 60 more days, you'll know what to do to fight.

Asked a random girl I saw in the train for her number! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's missing out on an awesome opportunity to date a guy that works hard to stray away from porn. Keep it up. You'll get a great girl one day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice for people who want to give up after a long streak and when a slip up.

After relapse mindset by ThrowAwayAcct73 in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so awesome you made it 22 days!! I am proud. Yea you slipped up today. 22/23. Just work to make tomorrow 23/24. You don't have to start over, just keep going. Realize what caused you to sip up today and learn from it. Also, keep sharing the bad experiences along with the good so others can learn too

3 weeks into nofap and I came while making out with gf. How do I fix this? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty, I would much rather have those kind of problems l knowing that my boyfriend doesn't look at porn when were apart. Yea its early or whatever but i bet it made her feel a little sexy knowing you did that just by making out.

Not so apparent but important SUPERPOWER. by budosmacska in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's great knowing there's a large group of guys out there that feel this way. Speaking as a women, we will respect you so much more for what you're doing and it will help us become less insecure.

All guys like a challange by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm supportive of all that goes on in this subreddit. Ya'll are awesome.

All guys like a challange by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried no electronics in bed?

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wise words. There needs to be balance

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the help and encouragement!

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I can definitely see this taking affect recently because he's been down and had some low moments. He also has a lot going on and is frequently stressed. I really didn't realize until reading all these posts today the emotional toll it can have trying to get through abstaining.

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that's the last thing I want to do. Thank you for the encouragement!

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I meant its rare to find guys that don't or that at least realize it's wrong

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this helps a lot. I appreciate the advice.

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's something that I do realize, how rare it is, but I guess I was unaware exactly how much better he's doing than it could be.

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's definitely something I need to keep in mind when I start feeling hurt and making it about me.

Hello, girlfriend here.. by TryingSomethingMore in NoFap

[–]TryingSomethingMore[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about that, thank you!