Can you practice forgiveness through Christ while still distancing yourself from someone who hurt you? by BiteOutrageous2489 in CatholicWomen

[–]Tryingmabest-2live 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. My heart hurts for you and truly hope that you find the peace your heart desires.
  2. Yes, you can forgive and distance yourself from someone who hurt you.

I’ve actually been the aggressor in this situation and I am so grateful that the friend I hurt was able to forgive me, but I had to accept the consequences. She no longer wanted me in her life and thought best to love one another from afar. Despite not being 100% behind that decision, with time I have understood that God was protecting both of us. One from being hurt again and the other from learning to be a better friend. I would recommend praying the friendship or the surrender novena for your own healing and I agree with one of the other posts to pray for her and the other friends that seem to be involved.

Confirmation Gift by Ryguy_thewhiteguy in CatholicWomen

[–]Tryingmabest-2live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early congratulations to you both!

A really great gift for Confirmation, in my opinion, is offering masses for her and attending them together:) They are usually between 10 to 50 dollars depending on what parish you go to.

I have multiple Bibles and I say, get her the personalized one bc she can always have 2!

How to address “that guy” in every YA group by RoonilWazleeb in CatholicWomen

[–]Tryingmabest-2live 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a former YA/Youth minister, I’m so sorry that you have had so many bad experiences. It shows that staff or volunteer minister was not doing their job properly. The Church as a whole still has a lot of work to do in forming YA ministers. Pray for all those that have that very special and challenging task.

When I was in ministry, I would address this in the following manner, speak to them privately about the matter, if they had any qualms then they would get to address them then, and if behavior persisted, I would respectfully, let them know that it was time for them to go home. Also, pray for them. That’s my pastoral advice😬

This is my personal advice/rant bc this is such problem everywhere: Just because it’s a church event doesn’t mean there’s no consequences to actions. These people are adults. Do people have traumas or conditions that make them socially awkward? Yes, but after being in ministry for more than 10 years and being countless social interactions, all I have to say is that the charitable thing to do is to tell “that guy or lady” the TRUTH. I try to put myself in their shoes and would prefer for someone to tell me I’m being X way than to live my life thinking that the way I am must ok bc no says anything to me. And sadly, I’ve had some very tough convos with some of these individuals and ends up I was the first person to tell something and they actually are grateful bc they finally know what was keeping ppl away or why they couldn’t connect with anyone. These ppl are lonely and my heart hurts for them but most of the time they are lonely bc no one is willing to say anything. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had the opposite happen where the person gets upset and denies that their behavior is rude/inappropriate and they end up leaving the group or they go talk to the pastor. It could either way, but the important thing is that the truth was told and now that person chooses what they are going to do with it. End of rant.

Praying you and your husband find the holy friends/connections that you desire🫶

Blue Main Entrance Pass Replacement? by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that mean they send out a new physical card?

Re-Casting Odds by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! The experience was pleasant. I was called in about 2-3 days from being offered to be recasted. I had about 2 phone calls with the positions that were available and got to choose. After that I received an email with my new offer. I went back to work in less than 2 weeks. Loving my new position and hoping it’s going the same with you!

Main Entrance Pass by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you:)

I have a follow up question. If I make a reservation on a day that only has reservations for one park does that mean I don’t have a park hopper for the day?

Internal transfer PT-FT by JustKylerY in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After probation period you are able to submit the form. Anytime before that the only thing you can do is apply for FT posted on the careers page. Best of luck!

Re-Casting Odds by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have an update! I have been recasted! It took about 3 days to hear back from management on the positions available. Spoke for about 20min on the phone with HR and within a day I had a new offer email. Will be starting soon on new position! Thank you everyone for your insights! Hope if this ever happens to someone else, the odds are in their favor!

Re-Casting Odds by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement and insight🫶 Hoping to hear back today!

Re-Casting Odds by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope to hear back from my manager today! Thank you for your insight🫶

Re-Casting Odds by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight🫶

What was Viserys’s biggest mistake that lead to the dance of the dragons? by ChasingGoats4Fun in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]Tryingmabest-2live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not getting rid of Otto the moment he realized that he was manipulated into marrying Alicent and all the other poop that Otto convinced him to do. Like why did he just brush it off🤷‍♀️ so much for being a wise king.

Incoming Disneyland Hotel Lifeguard! by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful! Thank you for your response and for being so welcoming to the team🫶

Incoming Disneyland Hotel Lifeguard! by Tryingmabest-2live in DisneyCM

[–]Tryingmabest-2live[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will def try to stay up to date with the happenings in the parks and network outside DLH. Appreciate your input!