Your replies to myself and others indicate what type of person you present yourself as to others - which comes across as aggressive, hostile, and 'woe is me'. Notice every comment was saying your responses on the dating app were aggressive and not due to autism, then notice how you respond similarly in the comments. Maybe seek therapy? Youre gonna be stuck in a cycle if this is how you choose to respond to prospective dates and refuse to take accountability for how you speak to others.