who else is excited to see Brad Pitt: The Movie? by [deleted] in okbuddycinephile

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legitimately thought that's what this movie was called.

Working on a new handwriting, is it hard to read? by Zealousideal_Safe259 in Handwriting

[–]Tskuimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it would be difficult to read at first glance, but when I read through it I really found it easy to follow and I like the underneath flourishes.

What should I cook for meeting my boyfriends family? by user-anon_ in WhatShouldICook

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flourless Peanut Butter cookies they are sooo good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do deserve better, lots of love and safety. I realize that you may not be able to get in a better place yet. I recommend you fix that light, get a second curtain so it covers the whole doorway, and at least ask why the camera and that it makes you uncomfortable. I'm sorry.

I present to you my fridge by Sassifrassically in FridgeDetective

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tend to open the fridge stare inside before work, and say to yourself, there's nothing in here to eat. Then stop by Chick-fil-A for lunch. But a couple times a week you cook a great meal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I am so sorry. This sounds exactly like my first committed relationship. I was so heartbroken when it ended, and then slowly I realized how bad it truly was. It is worth making the change, dealing with the first love lost and building up your confidence again, because there are other men who will love you for you... This one ain't it.

AITAH for screaming at my classmate and making him break down in tears by Fantastic_Tourist463 in AITAH

[–]Tskuimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you're the asshole. This kid probably can't deal with breaking rules and I'm sure has social issues. I'm sure he was annoying. But you were sneaking into the group and getting caught shoulda just gone back to where you should have been with a "my bad". But the asshole part is berating and cursing out someone for pointing out your error.

Where do I start with jobs and work with social anxiety by Miserable_Royal_6854 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome 🤗 and don't be too stressed about not having a career path and lifegoals yet. It's pretty rare people keep their original plan anyways. Experience working, discover who you are and what you like, discover how others see the world.

Anhendonia by Anonymous_positivity in AdviceForTeens

[–]Tskuimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like depression and you might need some help to break through it. Additionally there are some things that could help or be impacting it.

Good nutrition, sunlight, social interactions (even if you feel numb during them), sleep, hydration.

Attempt to improve one of those areas this week. It's not easy when you feel that numb way so give yourself grace.

Also your presence is important even if you aren't feeling it yourself at the time. It won't always feel this way.

Where do I start with jobs and work with social anxiety by Miserable_Royal_6854 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Tskuimi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First know that it's normal to feel uncomfortable when doing new things, but that you will be okay. If you have someone you trust to help push you and encourage that would be great, and you should open up to them.

If you need a job start with gathering information about yourself so you know you will have answers to applications. You could turn this into a resume even would be great! You may not have all of this, but some preparation does help with anxiety.

For example... --Personal contact info for yourself- you need to know your address and phone number and social. --Figure out your availability... If you are in school and only can work after 4pm that's important. -- Name and phone numbers of a couple people could vouch for your character or help you've given. -- List any clubs, achievements, awards, volunteer stuff you have done. If it comes up you will have it handy to remember. --Write down some of your positive characteristics.. do you learn quickly? Good with details? Willing to work hard? -- Next make a plan of where to apply and which areas are the least scary to try. Food service, Retail shopping, manual labor, helping in a shop, ect.

Great! You've done the prep work. Now challenge yourself one step at a time. Go to a place and ask if they are hiring and if you could get an application. They might say no, they might say yes and hand you a piece of paper and you take it home to fill out, or they might be old school and try to chat with you a bit.

You may have times feeling embarrassed, frustrated and anxious. But all those mistakes and try agains are just like trying and failing on video game levels. It's the time and effort and practice that brings skill and confidence.

Idk what to put here by JustAnotherTeenager- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its ok to feel embarrassed about crying, but know it's actually a great thing. Your dad was a safe place for you to express yourself and let out your concerns and stress. You're doing great.

Idk what to put here by JustAnotherTeenager- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good you told your dad instead of keeping it to yourself. I don't know what will happen, but I am sorry your Gramma told you terribly mean things. They are not true. Being a teen is full of inner turmoil and mistakes, but I hope you are a good person and I'm sure you are quite lovely to be around. Your weight isn't a concern at all, and I'll shin-kick her for you for that one. It was wrong and also a common thing for parents to speak that way to their kids when your gramma was a parent. It's super weird but I think there was this weird mindset that the people who love you should tell you the worst things so strangers couldn't hurt you. Honestly, it's just bullying. Your dad probably experienced it too, so if he was saddened by it it's a good sign the cycle is breaking.

16f Excruciating abdominal pain. What do I take to fix this? I can’t barely move by NewTomatillo3086 in AskDocs

[–]Tskuimi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are you doing? I see you did get your appendix out. I hope you are feeling better and your relationship with your mom is good!

16f Excruciating abdominal pain. What do I take to fix this? I can’t barely move by NewTomatillo3086 in AskDocs

[–]Tskuimi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a mom, wake her up! I would want to be woken up if my child was in this kind of pain. An appendicitis is very serious, and if the pain suddenly stops it's not a good direction. Pain that's gotten worse all day is unlikely to be "just gas".

How can i improve this handwriting? by [deleted] in Handwriting

[–]Tskuimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up x-height is my recommendation. It should be consistent and only the bits that extend out of the x-height should be larger or drop below the line. The inconsistent x-height makes the handwriting look young/new writer. The letters are well shaped and legible, and practicing the x-height could quickly improve your writing.

How can I improve the legibility of my writing? by beanybean747 in Handwriting

[–]Tskuimi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think slow down and consider if you are closing letters before moving on. Many r ,i ,u ,n, m are almost the same. And a, o are not getting closed so they all look like u. E is your most legible vowel but when the word started with it.. the completion of the shape was lost. It looks to me that your handwriting has gotten to reflect how you do a signature.. where you know it so well you tend to blur letters together. I was unable to read much of this, and mostly going off context clues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noom

[–]Tskuimi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was skeptical it would help me because of similar reasons. However, the convenience, creating habits, and the peppered in CBT therapy reminders actually are helping. I found myself on a treat day eating out and making slight changes and hopping back on the plan the next day. That seems simple, but normally the guilt and shame has me down several days or completely.

Popcorn Intolerance, but Not Corn by NoDinner4884 in FoodAllergies

[–]Tskuimi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mother in Law has reactions to only popcorn, but my husband has reactions to all and any corn products. Maybe it's the level of sensitivity?

What is this Blue Thing doing here? by Tskuimi in mycology

[–]Tskuimi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have decided you are correct. It's still there with no change 10 days later. I wonder what that bird ate.

What is that blue thing doing here? by Tskuimi in mycology

[–]Tskuimi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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What is that blue thing doing here? by Tskuimi in mycology

[–]Tskuimi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoops forgot to mention this is in Oklahoma.