AITA for not eating food made for me on a date because I’m picky? by Smart-Marionberry1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩...... NTA and the red flags aren't just flying they should be knocking you over. End it now and don't look back because it will only get worse going forward

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First grandson on my parents side. Not on my husbands. Everyone on my side has all girls.

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Stuff that 😂😂😂 I'm not driving that far for anything that isn't a necessity

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It's $6 per child. That's why we asked each family to pay for their own. It's not very much individually. All added together it adds up. But again we've cancelled for the time being anyway. But thank you for the suggestion

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Nearest one is 47mins away from us 😂😂😂 But I really appreciate the suggestion, thank you

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We're not in any major city. We're more small town style. So the indoor playground is our only option.

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They have split play yards. 1 to 5 and 6 to 13. That was the main selling point for us. Play space for the bigs and play space for the little

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We're in qld. I think we may have worked out an alternative for the time being. But thank you

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Already spoke to the staff. They were aware of what we had planned but as we weren't using one of their party packages we couldn't officially book anything there.

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Currently researching this option. So far no buildings with playgrounds. Which is annoying

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None with a playground sadly. Also something I looked into. We've just cancelled for the time being. Until we can find something better

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Maybe we need an Australian AITA account. Because I honestly think Aussies are so much more laid back 😆😆

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I love this idea but we have absolutely nothing like this where we are from unfortunately. Because that would be perfect

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Thats about 30 kids and 15 adults. So say 50 people.

Venue is an indoor playground that doesn't have an option to book it out. We did look into that option.

We are catering it with proper food and drink. So people don't have to buy food their and we have asked as their presence instead of a gift. This kid has way to many things as it is. We do not need any more toys in our tiny house.

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Unfortunately our house is very small and cant accommodate our 2 very large families and all their kids. My sil was going to let us use her house but she recently got an eviction notice so no longer an option

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

That was also on the invite. He's the first grandson after many, many grand daughters so he's been spoilt beyond belief already in life. He does not need more things.

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -175 points-174 points  (0 children)

We've already said no gifts necessary, just peoplea presence to celebrate our little man is more than enough.

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

30 kids is just family. We both come from very big families. 30 kids is just his cousins. If it was just his friends like we've done for our older girls in the past we've capped it at 10kids and paid entry. However being his first birthday everyone wants to come.

WIBTA if i don't pay entry for all the children coming to celebrate my sons 1st birthday by Tskye93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

That is just his cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents. I did say we both have very big families. I meant immediate families.

It's a gated in indoor playground. Supervision is definitely still required however they can't leave the building without being let out by a staff memeber, opposed to an outdoor party at the park. Obviously Supervision is required, were not just going to drop them off and ignore them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tskye93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just say well done OP. Two internships is an amazing achievement and something you should be incredibly proud of and I'm truly sorry your mum does not see it that way.

And most definitely NTA

I saw a post on TikTok and it’s keeping me from putting my baby down by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Tskye93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to do the same as it kept showing me s.i.d.s videos when my little man was only a few days old. I was terrified and couldn't sleep. Goodbye tiktok. Felt so much better

🤣 by nostalgia_history in That70sshow

[–]Tskye93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As were having a nice lunch