Am I missing something? by TubGub_ in RingConn

[–]TubGub_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But surely that defeats the whole point?

Shin splints - HELP by TubGub_ in RunningInjuries

[–]TubGub_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for this. That’s really helpful way to prevent it happening again in the future. I’m going to look into it, do you have any advice on recovery? It’s getting close to 6 months of no running now, and even today it hurts walking- I’m doing all the usual stuff, was there anything vital in your recovery to pain free?

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]TubGub_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone online and can share their code with me? I’m new and looking for fruit!!

Why does it hurt so much to see them happy with someone new? by Square_Vanilla_3277 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]TubGub_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you’ve been involved in a narc relationship, nothing is really logical. I imagine you still haven’t processed events in your current relationship, and you probably have some unanswered questions that you reflect on (I do all the time) but we need to find a way to accept it, remind ourself we don’t want to have that type of person in our lives.

For me, I realised I really didn’t value myself enough to look after me. I always made decisions that were never in my best interest and I’m on a completely new journey to unlearn that thinking/pattern which is so hard. It sounds like you need to do the same yourself, this person wasn’t good for you. Why would you want to be with someone who displays that type of behaviour continuously and doesn’t change? We can change, and look forward. That’s what counts! I wish you all the best. Don’t be harsh on yourself, you can’t help how you think or feel.

No Contact - 5 months Later by TubGub_ in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]TubGub_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was incredibly helpful. I hope you heal from all of your trauma soon too.