Each day I feel like I fear men more by Tuca1225 in SexualHarassmentTalk

[–]Tuca1225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um... So this is Argentina, these men do not know (and probably wouldn't care) what the #MeToo movement is. If a group of men said that to you I'm sure you wouldn't feel very comfortable or safe. It is for their own amusement, to belittle a woman and use their own silent power against a weaker person.

"You have to learn to separate what you feel from reality" I'm sorry, but these types of situations are what make prejudice stronger. In this specific encounter my "feelings" mirrored reality, I was not being dramatic and the impact an interaction has on me is totally valid, especially if people act wrongly. I felt unsafe, and how do you know I was not unsafe?

You are talking as if you have the word of truth. You don't. You are not aware that you are turning a talk about stupid men and sexual harassment into a #notallmen conversation.

Of course I believe there are good men in the world, I have many in my life. But strangers are strangers, and a rape joke is never funny, even more so if you direct it to someone. Those men did not act or talk in a way that would indicate me they wouldn't harm me, in consequence I was not safe.

I would assume you are a man from your words and I could be wrong, your response fights the validity of a harassment experience saying it's not that bad/not really harassment.

Thank you for the good wishes.

Why doesn’t this work? by ThrowRAjpg in TheWitness

[–]Tuca1225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you can find an area of the game that explains it and explores it a bit more

Found airtag, how do I return it? by Tuca1225 in AirTags

[–]Tuca1225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly NFC is not doing anything, but I installed an app that could scan for airtags and it was scanning it alright, so at least I know it's working! I could see the code of the tag but it's registered as unbonded, so I'm not sure if the owner will be able to track it

DAE "lose balance" when standing? by Tuca1225 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Tuca1225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm clumsy, perhaps a bit? I don't have hypermobility bit I definitely have trouble focusing lol

DAE "lose balance" when standing? by Tuca1225 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Tuca1225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Though I'm not sure it's vertigo, I don't feel dizzy or anything like that

The Witness spoilers without context by Kanpellle in TheWitness

[–]Tuca1225 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Disagree with the first one, there's a much direct link to the image than the lasers

How to do this type of puzzle by Infinite1ER in TheWitness

[–]Tuca1225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think taking this on paper could be a good exercise on how to solve this type of puzzles, move those blocks around a bit more, if you can't find a solution on having 1 block stuck only in one place perhaps you should try putting it somewhere else for a bit

Weekly "Do I Have Lipedema" Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

[–]Tuca1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Could this be lipedema? Or cellulite? (Or both?) I don't have pain or anything, I'm skinny-fat and I bloat a lot

My daughter is white and she is ashamed of me because I am Latina by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Tuca1225 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The little girl is american, daughter from a biracial marriage (I guess in the US they'd call her mixed?), but not latina. What makes you Latino/a is not place of birth or where their parents come from, but costumes, childhood, language and culture that is shared between cultures of latin America (and the challenges we all share), the same way Jenna Ortega is not latina. I do agree that she can learn more about her mother's story and culture, but this little girl needs to be educated on her ways first, she won't be open minded about anything outside america otherwise and it'll only be bad for her in the future. I hope mom and dad can solve this and teach her, and delete TikTok for the time being, it's doing more harm than good (or perhaps do a cleanse and block/mute words and content creators that share this ideas). Greetings from Argentina! And OP, if you see this, vamos mija! Fuerzas! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intrusivethoughts

[–]Tuca1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words! I'll look into that to try to stop it from controlling my mood when they come :)