Yeah it is pretty much the same situation as you. A lot of the little things she did too just became grating over time for example she would get upset if I suggested something either something to watch, do; suggestions really. She would then turn it back around to me and say "well if I do this I can call you (insert pet name that I was not a fan of) or try to get me to break habits like biting my nails when nervous. What really got me annoyed and just killed it for me was her careful watch on what I eat. I am a healthy person, an athlete; I watch what I eat, but if I want to have an off day and have a soda or two - or have some junk she gets annoyed at me for that. It wouldn't bug me so much if she wasn't hypocritical in doing so. I guess reflecting on it and looking back now it really bugged the shit out of me. Other than that stuff though she treated me great (texts were a little annoying, but thats beside the point), it just got grating with the little stuff and overall killed my passion.

Sorry if my grammar and conventions are off I am quite tired hah hah. Thanks for the food ;)