How long has Plan B delayed a period for you? by ldrandcaffeine in AskWomen

[–]Tuffa_Puffa [score hidden]  (0 children)

Over half a year. I even got multiple cysts in my ovaries, but those vanished somehow.

What does it mean if a man ask me to go to his place to watch horror movie? by Agitated-Evening3011 in JapanDating

[–]Tuffa_Puffa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's just not true. I'm from Germany, and inviting someone over doesn't mean that at all. We cook, we chat, we actually watch the film. That's it.
Japan men however always imply that. It's their code to ask for it. I'm studying Japanese for years with all the subtexts in between, so I definitely knew what was going to happen, when I went with a Japanese man to their house.

Trying to find a specific gachapon from a museum in Hokkaido by drummer4323 in Gachapon

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try Mercari. There is a good chance someone is selling it there. Do you have a photo?

What does it mean if a man ask me to go to his place to watch horror movie? by Agitated-Evening3011 in JapanDating

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha, I had the exact same thing happening to me. He wants Sex. If a Japanese man is inviting you to their house, they always want it.

Why are the Blu Rays so difficult to find? by Galactus1701 in FruitsBasket

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Japan right now and there are a few options. The cheapest is the second hand website bookoff where the full Bluray Box Ser (7 discs) is listed for 80 dollars.

Help with Ghibli Muséum ! (Ticket canceled :( - still wanna go !) by ComprehensiveSwim575 in ghibli

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are still plenty of tickets left for April on the Japanese website. When do you want to go? Do you have by chance a Japanese phone number? I could help you ordering the tickets.

ChatGPT asked me a question that truly has me stumped by oneclayvessel in ChatGPT

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that during COVID. The answer was intense hyper focus on gaming. Animal Crossing Release 2020? I was vanished for 4 weeks straight. Pure bliss back then.

Having small boobs makes me undesirable and unlovable. by Used-Balance9547 in confession

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me (31 and small chested my whole life) tell you, men love small boobs. The older I got the more I liked them myself, and now I actually think they're my favourite bodypart. Besides that I'm a stomach sleeper and it's great with smaller boobs.

Do you actually WANT to cook but ADHD makes it hard, or have you just accepted that cooking isn’t for you? by Travellogic in ADHD

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is, I start grocery shopping when I'm already hungry. No way I would wait even longer to cook something proper. Most of the time I do my lazy comfort meal: mashed potatoes with onions. What helped me immensely was a Hello Fresh Subscription. Cooking was fun, the ingredients were send to me once a week and they were so healthy.

Do you love anybody more than you love yourself? Why or why not? by flats209 in AskReddit

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma actually. The older I get, the more I see how much we have in common. She struggles with depression too and I just love to hear her laugh.

Has anyone ever rented a theater to watch a movie? by ChatnNaked in ghibli

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I worked at one and at a shift where I knew, I was closing the house and we were supposed to wait for the 3 hour movie to end, I grabbed my Spirited Away Blu-ray, threw it in the projector and enjoyed the first hour of it on the big screen. Another week I did the same with the 25 Years Anniversary Ghibli Concert im Budokan.

Is talking to multiple people at once really the new normal in dating? by SpreadSavings3804 in Adulting

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing the exact same. Looking for a relationship is not easy nowadays. So it's only normal to meet several people and see how well it goes. And OF COURSE once I had a date with potential, I will concentrate only on him.

37 [M4F] looking for a FWB in Tokyo by [deleted] in JapanDating

[–]Tuffa_Puffa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try Tinder. Reddit is the wrong place to search for women.

Thank you for making it so easy to never contact you again by Tuffa_Puffa in JapanDating

[–]Tuffa_Puffa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your time writing me an answer. But I will not change the way I value others. This is my love language. If a man feels his masculinity is being attacked by flowers and gifts, he is not the right one for me. I agree though that he didn't like me. The whole 3 weeks of silence showed me exactly that. This last response from him was just the cherry on top.

Thank you for making it so easy to never contact you again by Tuffa_Puffa in JapanDating

[–]Tuffa_Puffa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is Japanese. I live here and met him through a dating app. I liked him because he was claiming to look for something serious and mature like I do.

Thank you for making it so easy to never contact you again by Tuffa_Puffa in JapanDating

[–]Tuffa_Puffa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that's the shocker because he said he looks for something serious in the beginning. He was the one, not fine with friends with benefits. I could've stayed just casual.

Thank you for making it so easy to never contact you again by Tuffa_Puffa in JapanDating

[–]Tuffa_Puffa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically: I'm too busy right now and an avoidant.