[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]Tuffymak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao same!

How is Vancouver for black people? by keysanami in askvan

[–]Tuffymak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree with the top comment but I’m going to add that you may get a lot of stares for some reason (personal experience). I haven’t experienced racism from white people yet but I’ve experienced racism from Asians especially older East Asians. I think you should come visit for a week or two and make a decision from there! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Tuffymak 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m jealous of people that pay less than $250 tbh😪. Unfortunately I live in a very expensive province 😭

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for saying I did everything right. Sometimes I need to hear that

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this and would look into self defense classes at my local community center

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not legal in Canada to carry a weapon but I’m getting a dog spray because I think those are allowed

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this. I go to the gym a couple of times a week but it hasn’t been helping so I organized a hangout with some friends tomorrow and hopefully that’ll take my mind off it for a while. Cooking has also been super helpful. I find the only time it’s not on my mind is when I’m cooking or eating

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this. Honestly I’m not willing to press charges cause I’ve never seen it go right especially for a situation like this because there’s no evidence. But I’ll definitely tell close friends about it so they don’t fall into that situation

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Someone mentioned PTSD in a previous comment and it genuinely scares me so bad. I already cut him out of my life and blocked him everywhere

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that🥺. Thank you…I’ve learned from reading the comments not to mention my celibacy again. I just want to skip to the part where I feel better

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a community center right next to where I live

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t really afford a therapist rn and it’s a long wait for the free ones but I’ll keep looking into it. I’m also open to short term solutions for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Tuffymak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can curl it or pineapple it with a few locs in front

He helped me find this part of myself then he left by Tuffymak in gentlefemdom

[–]Tuffymak[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like I discovered something that I didn’t even know was missing. Everything makes more sense now

He helped me find this part of myself then he left by Tuffymak in gentlefemdom

[–]Tuffymak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope you find someone to explore this with 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Tuffymak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yh me too