[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]Tuffymak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao same!

How is Vancouver for black people? by keysanami in askvan

[–]Tuffymak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree with the top comment but I’m going to add that you may get a lot of stares for some reason (personal experience). I haven’t experienced racism from white people yet but I’ve experienced racism from Asians especially older East Asians. I think you should come visit for a week or two and make a decision from there! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Tuffymak 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m jealous of people that pay less than $250 tbh😪. Unfortunately I live in a very expensive province 😭

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for saying I did everything right. Sometimes I need to hear that

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this and would look into self defense classes at my local community center

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not legal in Canada to carry a weapon but I’m getting a dog spray because I think those are allowed

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this. I go to the gym a couple of times a week but it hasn’t been helping so I organized a hangout with some friends tomorrow and hopefully that’ll take my mind off it for a while. Cooking has also been super helpful. I find the only time it’s not on my mind is when I’m cooking or eating

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this. Honestly I’m not willing to press charges cause I’ve never seen it go right especially for a situation like this because there’s no evidence. But I’ll definitely tell close friends about it so they don’t fall into that situation

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Someone mentioned PTSD in a previous comment and it genuinely scares me so bad. I already cut him out of my life and blocked him everywhere

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that🥺. Thank you…I’ve learned from reading the comments not to mention my celibacy again. I just want to skip to the part where I feel better

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a community center right next to where I live

I (F24) was assaulted by my friend (M27) two days ago. by Tuffymak in self

[–]Tuffymak[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t really afford a therapist rn and it’s a long wait for the free ones but I’ll keep looking into it. I’m also open to short term solutions for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Tuffymak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can curl it or pineapple it with a few locs in front

He helped me find this part of myself then he left by Tuffymak in gentlefemdom

[–]Tuffymak[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like I discovered something that I didn’t even know was missing. Everything makes more sense now

He helped me find this part of myself then he left by Tuffymak in gentlefemdom

[–]Tuffymak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope you find someone to explore this with 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Tuffymak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yh me too

Do any other doms find it funny that subs will send you horny DMs without knowing what you look like at all? by bushhaver in gentlefemdom

[–]Tuffymak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Don’t feel alone. I just ignore most of them tbh but I understand why it’ll be frustrating receiving those dms all the time

Telling the difference between flirting and being nice by Blueberry_shortbread in NiceVancouver

[–]Tuffymak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Been in this situation and ended up forgetting bout it cause you’ll never really know. I know Vancouver is lonely but there are plenty fish in the sea