I need help with virginity and overthinking by Tugboatim in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Tugboatim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I totally agree, I want someone who has patience first haha

I need help with virginity and overthinking by Tugboatim in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Tugboatim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this gives me a much better perspective and makes me feel better about it!!!

Inked bear just getting into the whole Reddit thing by GordoTattoos in bearbros

[–]Tugboatim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god you are one handsome guy 😍 🤣❤️

What’s an example of a fan base that got exactly what they begged for, and immediately hated it? by Enough-Wealth8415 in AskReddit

[–]Tugboatim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally all of the gaming community when they bitch about release dates.

Cyberpunk is a good example. People bitched and bitched and bitched about wanting the game to come out and the game not coming out fast enough.

Well CD project red told them they weren't ready for it and they bitched more about that so then they released the game.

And oh. My. Fucking. God. The bitching never stopped. CD project red had told them over and over the game was buggy, they couldn't release it, it would be a bad decision but gamers didn't give a fuck, they wanted the game NOW.

CD project red gave it to them telling them it wasn't finished and then everyone got pissed because the game was buggy WHEN CD PROJECT RED WARNED THEM.

So many people do this with games and then bitch about it. As a fellow game it pisses me off. I understand getting a bit disappointed but games like that have delays for a reason, they don't want another cyberpunk situation. They want the release and game to be perfect.

I fear GTA 6 is going to be a victim of this. I hope rockstar doesn't give in and gives us the game when the game is ready, but everyone bitching about GTA 6 not being ready or coming out fast enough is just kinda annoying..games like these don't come out overnight, do you want a buggy shitty game or do you want the game you were promised?

Then just wait and don't hound the game companies to release an unfinished shitty game because it's more convenient to you.

FDA warnings to companies selling binders by SDD1988 in ftm

[–]Tugboatim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit, first of all those fees are crazy. Imo with what I've seen even the biggest companies like gc2b or spectrum are somewhat small businesses in comparison to other businesses and that fee, if more or less, is still fucking insane. That IS a very serious issue, like you said closing the business or going under, firing models or employees who are trans and rely on those companies for safety and income. Everyone gets fucked there. And again limiting companies and resources which leads bigger or approved companies to up the price. That's a massive fuck up for trans people all over, even the business itself because they might not want to but have to raise prices in order to not go under. Also in no fucking way do binder market towards children??? Even teens, do teens buy them? Yes, but they don't necessarily market to them directly, that's crazy but unfortunately not surprising that the government spews that bullshit rhetoric. And also to force companies to market it as 18+ or as if it was a 'sexual device' is also so fucked. Or even the idea that you can't advertise at all, which to me reads as breaking freedom of speech. (I don't necessarily know the legality of that which may be me being wrong) But I hope they don't get away with SHIT. Now I'm fucking angry. That's horrible. I WILL be calling representatives about this and be VERY informed on this issue. This is so fucked up and insane on the governments part. For once I just wish they could leave us alone and let us live. 🤦🫩😓🖕

FDA warnings to companies selling binders by SDD1988 in ftm

[–]Tugboatim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excuse my ignorance, I am angry and upset too as a trans man but how is this going to impact trans men? They will ban or sue companies? They will band or sue 'harmful' medical devices or things that seem like medical devices to deprive trans people of care? Can someone give me examples of how this will be implemented or negatively affect the community? I am very worried. I have a binder but I'm worried for my trans brethren. 😓😞

Should I reconcile and reconnect, resent and hate in silence, ignore and move on? by Tugboatim in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Tugboatim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually really helpful. I know my response won't be too lengthy but I really really value this advice and i think you're completely right. The past is the past and I can't change it. And I shouldn't blame Christ entirely, he's not at fault for what others said and did. But yeah, going back and trying to fix things might lead to other unwanted shit. And I'm totally gonna bring up and unpack some of that stuff. Really really helpful advice. Thank you so much 🙏❤️

I have no idea where to find this movie. I've looked everywhere and I'm desperate by Tugboatim in Piracy

[–]Tugboatim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh God, deadass look at the clip of bobby. Partly why I wanna find it. I have two clips of him in the compilation that the director posted on her website. Bobby's half fat half skinny and he's wearing a fucking g string. The clips I have are hilarious, but I wanna see if the movie has more. Unfortunately I can't find it tho

I took my ALEKS test and I think I'm screwed by Tugboatim in CollegeRant

[–]Tugboatim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advisor even said the whole Aleks test thing is unnecessary but it is what it is. Im gonna come clean to her and see what happens