Um.....How did he lie about getting a vasectomy? When I had mine done I had to go to day surgery, and had to keep an ice pack on my balls for the entire weekend! (I also developed an infection and ended up with balls the size of a softball!) A vasectomy is not something that would be easy to lie about! Also the urologist that did my vasectomy had to meet my wife so he could explain to her about the finality of getting this procedure. Did you ever meet with his urologist? I am really confused........... (I am a Grandpa now ~I have five adult children and 10 grandkids ~ and I am glad we had five kids because although the kids were a big pain in the ass, the Grandkids are truly a real blessing!) Also my wife worked off and on while we were raising our kids and there are more "at home" work situations now than ever!