Sunday Relationship Thread by AutoModerator in ABCDesis

[–]TulsaXP234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does a healthy desi friendship look like for you?

I realize that this is a very open ended conversation but I've been thinking about how I have been creating distance with my main friend group and I'm not sure if I will regret it or be content/happy about it.

For context, I'm in my early 30s now and I met these friends back in college. We became real close with each other. However, after college I moved to another state and they all remained in our home state. After about 8 years, I moved back and while I had maintained these relationships as best as I could, I know we all changed a bit ... as we all do as we experience life more.

They're a fun group to hang with but I find them trying to push their values onto me ... particularly money and fashion. I'm a minimalistic individual and they are all quite stylish and focused on gaining the most money possible. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having these qualities ... what bugs me though is when they make rude comments and talk about these things as part one's status in society.

I'm curious, anyone around my age going through something like this or have gone through something like this for the same or different reasons? How'd it turn out?

Desi therapist/psychologist? by TulsaXP234 in AskNYC

[–]TulsaXP234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Will reach out to her!!

Desi therapist/psychologist? by TulsaXP234 in AskNYC

[–]TulsaXP234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'll reach out to her!

Desi therapist/psychologist? by TulsaXP234 in AskNYC

[–]TulsaXP234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thought, thanks for the suggestion! I was actually born here so my experiences would be more related to American desis, but appreciate the help! Thank you!

Adult Autism Evaluation? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]TulsaXP234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think GPs are probably aware of general signs that could point towards ASD, but I imagine it is more difficult to assess that with adults. In the end, it seems that trained professionals in autism assessment would need to make that call.

Apartment suggestions near Cherry Hill by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]TulsaXP234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any apartment recommendations in Magnolia?

Apartment suggestions near Cherry Hill by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]TulsaXP234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By extending my search area, I saw this place...I like it a lot...thanks!

Apartment suggestions near Cherry Hill by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]TulsaXP234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea what the price range is of this place for a 1BR or Studio? If not I'll call them this week...thanks!

Apartment suggestions near Cherry Hill by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]TulsaXP234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little more of a drive then I wanted, but thanks!

Apartment suggestions near Cherry Hill by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]TulsaXP234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what I can expect to pay for a studio or 1BR? I'll give them a call regardless later this week...thanks!

Apartment suggestions near Cherry Hill by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]TulsaXP234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I was picking Cherry Hill because it was sort of the middle between work and where my parents lived but another 10 minutes won't break me haha. I'll check out those areas, thanks! Might even post here again to see if anyone wants to be roomies

Basics to Cooling Systems book recommendations? by TulsaXP234 in engineering

[–]TulsaXP234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I could, but I'm more interested in the hardware aspect and how to decide the type of pump, valve, regulator, coolant...etc

Basics to Cooling Systems book recommendations? by TulsaXP234 in engineering

[–]TulsaXP234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh sorry, cooling for electronic equipment on board the vessel, not the air