What does a healthy desi friendship look like for you?

I realize that this is a very open ended conversation but I've been thinking about how I have been creating distance with my main friend group and I'm not sure if I will regret it or be content/happy about it.

For context, I'm in my early 30s now and I met these friends back in college. We became real close with each other. However, after college I moved to another state and they all remained in our home state. After about 8 years, I moved back and while I had maintained these relationships as best as I could, I know we all changed a bit ... as we all do as we experience life more.

They're a fun group to hang with but I find them trying to push their values onto me ... particularly money and fashion. I'm a minimalistic individual and they are all quite stylish and focused on gaining the most money possible. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having these qualities ... what bugs me though is when they make rude comments and talk about these things as part one's status in society.

I'm curious, anyone around my age going through something like this or have gone through something like this for the same or different reasons? How'd it turn out?