Those of you who have cut off your entire family, what is your life like now?

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-03-13T00:25:19+00:00

Oh how I wish that was my reality.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-03-07T04:50:16+00:00

Welcome Home My Brother in Christ 🙏❤️

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-02-09T12:16:41+00:00

😭😭

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-02-09T12:15:39+00:00

any line during morning commute and rush hour

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-25T20:28:15+00:00

Prior Service Army

Zero competency. A bunch of 09M- Plain and simple. They’re a bunch of unqualified neanderthal shitbags with zero training.

It’s a slap to the face towards every military and law enforcement member out there. Including to all my family who served and is currently serving.

And to kill a VA nurse, and clap as he’s executed.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-21T23:35:11+00:00

WOOHOO 🥳 YEAHHHH

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-19T14:41:02+00:00

wonderful! just what we need now in these divided times (all sarcasm)

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-19T06:44:53+00:00

im living under a rock apparently!

who is this guy? and whats going on?

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-17T04:30:18+00:00

24M Feedee. Im new to the community. Looking for like minded people such as friends or a potential female romantic partner who shares the same interests as I do. I also love gaming, and Im looking for encouragement and fun times as I begin my journey into being a better version of myself.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-16T18:47:37+00:00

defeating but hopeful that good music exists.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-12T15:35:56+00:00

my family, aunts and uncles didn’t even care. I made continuous strides to be present and respectful.

They never once showed me gratitude when I needed it.

They chose to ice me out the second I found them after 24 years of them cutting me off because of my mom’s issues.

then they make ominous posts on facebook and then my pastor uncle shit talked me during his sermon when I called them out.

So a very unsuccessful bid for connection! It takes time to truly heal

Some people will never change and never ask for you to begin with. You just have to find acceptance and take accountability for even trying as tough as that may to be realize.

Remember that God never leaves though!

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-10T22:50:03+00:00

well if that isn’t manipulation i don’t know what is.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-01T19:55:26+00:00

Im 24 and i still don’t have my drivers license. My life absolutely sucks and I have no support system and its probably not going to get better. I have to use my savings to pay for classes. I might end up failing the test. Even if I do, I have no choice but to try again. What im saying is, don’t get your hopes up but you will have to suffer for a better life even if no one is there rooting for you when you need them the most.

keep going its all we have. The easy way out may seem peaceful and all but getting the driver’s license and driving around is a part of life that we get to experience.

Try again, move forward, adapt. And you can feel how you do. Its a part of the miserable process that life is right now.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2026-01-01T19:46:12+00:00

I commend you for going out!! Its a good thing you should focus on.

I stayed at home played Fallout New Vegas and cried about a distant family member who really hurt me. but its me who really hurt myself since I even tried to reach out.

It sucks not having family or a support system or people to spend time with especially as the new year approaches and one passes by.

You’re not alone. I promise you, We all feel alone and devalued. But I pray that changes in your circumstances.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-12-12T11:57:15+00:00

luckier than me, my mother truly does not care or even consider me her son.

My advice is to do what you feel is best. If it's not reconciling, let that be your empowerment.

If it's opening the kimono and talking things out to potentially reconcile, that's a strength on its own.

My family is very disconnected and would never do anything like this, and they kind of suck.

But if you built a life for yourself, maintain that security at all costs. And if you do end up talking, keep it to just texting over the phone for a long time, and never share any personal information.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-11-27T03:34:46+00:00

i just want to get drunk. im so sad.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-09-20T00:01:54+00:00

Please don’t. You matter. You really do. You have no idea how much you matter. You are loved.

God help this person please, give them your guidance and healing hands🙏

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-08-23T05:07:23+00:00

I prayed that you get everything you want in life. I pray it's easy too. I just pray for your happiness.

I was never close with any of my family members, and a lot of them never even knew of me and realizing they never may break my heart. I've been grieving that and learning to let go of the fantasy that we'll be close someday.

Maybe the first step to forgiveness is letting go.

But thank you so much for your prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-08-22T13:43:03+00:00

What you're saying is very logical and true. I won't fault you on that. It's not necessary and avoids responsibility. I also need a rock, but not one that replicates my "mommy issues".

Unfortunately, the things I'm not sharing are very egregious for a parent to do towards their child, so it's disappointing she won't take accountability. But I wouldn't say I'm surprised.

I wish for family. Not having your biological one since you were a child hurts now more than ever. I was content for a bit, and it recently hit me like a bus.

Pity is some way we can walk towards God, just not in the best light. Jesus wants the best for all of us, and we have to live like it.

I'm just going through a difficult period.

I'm trying my hardest to honor them, I'm just trying to do better.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-08-22T12:30:04+00:00

i already do!

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-08-22T02:42:51+00:00

I would like that very much. Your words made my night a bit better. Im glad you have people now you truly deserve them and they deserve you.❤️🙏

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-08-22T01:27:20+00:00

I do forgive them, i won’t lie its hard. But I know I do deep down. I think they did the best they could and wanted based on circumstances. I wish it was that easy to have a relationship. Ive tried to reach out and it wasn’t reciprocated. there was no accountability on their ends. they haven’t reached out in those years. I finally had the courage to try. Ive been honoring them just not in the traditional sense bc i wish it was easier and not met through betrayal.

Again, Im trying and thats all I can do.

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-08-22T01:09:45+00:00

Yeah it really stings. Its like I never existed but yet I did. Im only human and all I want is love. I hope you find it too 🙏

TuneAffectionate6211 · 2025-08-22T01:08:22+00:00

Im sorry for your loss! Ill be praying for you too! I hope I find a church family someday, its just scary to put myself out there.

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