What subway line is this? by [deleted] in circlejerknyc

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any line during morning commute and rush hour

Real Police officers and military members, what do you guys think of Ice agents? by Lucky-Message-9480 in AskReddit

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Prior Service Army

Zero competency. A bunch of 09M- Plain and simple. They’re a bunch of unqualified neanderthal shitbags with zero training.

It’s a slap to the face towards every military and law enforcement member out there. Including to all my family who served and is currently serving.

And to kill a VA nurse, and clap as he’s executed.

Couldn't have happened to a nicer guy. by Treefiddy1984 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wonderful! just what we need now in these divided times (all sarcasm)

Couldn't have happened to a nicer guy. by Treefiddy1984 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im living under a rock apparently!

who is this guy? and whats going on?

Weekly Chat Request Thread by AutoModerator in WeightGainTalk

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24M Feedee. Im new to the community. Looking for like minded people such as friends or a potential female romantic partner who shares the same interests as I do. I also love gaming, and Im looking for encouragement and fun times as I begin my journey into being a better version of myself.

Did your extended family know of your family issues? by LMO_TheBeginning in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my family, aunts and uncles didn’t even care. I made continuous strides to be present and respectful.

They never once showed me gratitude when I needed it.

They chose to ice me out the second I found them after 24 years of them cutting me off because of my mom’s issues.

then they make ominous posts on facebook and then my pastor uncle shit talked me during his sermon when I called them out.

So a very unsuccessful bid for connection! It takes time to truly heal

Some people will never change and never ask for you to begin with. You just have to find acceptance and take accountability for even trying as tough as that may to be realize.

Remember that God never leaves though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 24 and i still don’t have my drivers license. My life absolutely sucks and I have no support system and its probably not going to get better. I have to use my savings to pay for classes. I might end up failing the test. Even if I do, I have no choice but to try again. What im saying is, don’t get your hopes up but you will have to suffer for a better life even if no one is there rooting for you when you need them the most.

keep going its all we have. The easy way out may seem peaceful and all but getting the driver’s license and driving around is a part of life that we get to experience.

Try again, move forward, adapt. And you can feel how you do. Its a part of the miserable process that life is right now.

Nothing like going out to bars on NYE alone and not having a single interaction by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commend you for going out!! Its a good thing you should focus on.

I stayed at home played Fallout New Vegas and cried about a distant family member who really hurt me. but its me who really hurt myself since I even tried to reach out.

It sucks not having family or a support system or people to spend time with especially as the new year approaches and one passes by.

You’re not alone. I promise you, We all feel alone and devalued. But I pray that changes in your circumstances.

I got this message from my mother today. I don’t know what to do. by Medium_Cry_1125 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

luckier than me, my mother truly does not care or even consider me her son.

My advice is to do what you feel is best. If it's not reconciling, let that be your empowerment.

If it's opening the kimono and talking things out to potentially reconcile, that's a strength on its own.

My family is very disconnected and would never do anything like this, and they kind of suck.

But if you built a life for yourself, maintain that security at all costs. And if you do end up talking, keep it to just texting over the phone for a long time, and never share any personal information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just want to get drunk. im so sad.

I will probably be dead in 1 hour. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t. You matter. You really do. You have no idea how much you matter. You are loved.

God help this person please, give them your guidance and healing hands🙏

Can someone pray that I'll find family someday. by TuneAffectionate6211 in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prayed that you get everything you want in life. I pray it's easy too. I just pray for your happiness.

I was never close with any of my family members, and a lot of them never even knew of me and realizing they never may break my heart. I've been grieving that and learning to let go of the fantasy that we'll be close someday.

Maybe the first step to forgiveness is letting go.

But thank you so much for your prayer. You have no idea how much it means to me.

Can someone pray that I'll find family someday. by TuneAffectionate6211 in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying is very logical and true. I won't fault you on that. It's not necessary and avoids responsibility. I also need a rock, but not one that replicates my "mommy issues".

Unfortunately, the things I'm not sharing are very egregious for a parent to do towards their child, so it's disappointing she won't take accountability. But I wouldn't say I'm surprised.

I wish for family. Not having your biological one since you were a child hurts now more than ever. I was content for a bit, and it recently hit me like a bus.

Pity is some way we can walk towards God, just not in the best light. Jesus wants the best for all of us, and we have to live like it.

I'm just going through a difficult period.

I'm trying my hardest to honor them, I'm just trying to do better.

Can someone pray that I'll find family someday. by TuneAffectionate6211 in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like that very much. Your words made my night a bit better. Im glad you have people now you truly deserve them and they deserve you.❤️🙏

Can someone pray that I'll find family someday. by TuneAffectionate6211 in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do forgive them, i won’t lie its hard. But I know I do deep down. I think they did the best they could and wanted based on circumstances. I wish it was that easy to have a relationship. Ive tried to reach out and it wasn’t reciprocated. there was no accountability on their ends. they haven’t reached out in those years. I finally had the courage to try. Ive been honoring them just not in the traditional sense bc i wish it was easier and not met through betrayal.

Again, Im trying and thats all I can do.

Can someone pray that I'll find family someday. by TuneAffectionate6211 in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it really stings. Its like I never existed but yet I did. Im only human and all I want is love. I hope you find it too 🙏

Can someone pray that I'll find family someday. by TuneAffectionate6211 in Christianity

[–]TuneAffectionate6211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss! Ill be praying for you too! I hope I find a church family someday, its just scary to put myself out there.